You might have heard the words “sacred sex” and wondered what that refers to. Or perhaps you were placing an online order for a “marital aid” and you kept reading about something called “tantra.” Maybe you have heard the rumors about 3 hour orgasms and extended lovemaking which sounds like it should have its own category at the Olympics. You might have even stumbled across book titles such as Women of the Light: The New Sacred Prostitute (an anthology edited by Kenneth Ray Stubbs) or Nancy Qualls-Corbett’s Sacred Prostitute: Eternal Aspect of the Feminine and wondered “could there be such a thing as sacred prostitution or sacred sex?”

Would you like to know what all the fuss is about? Allow me to shed some light on the subject. First, I recommend expanding your definition of sex. Most of us have been told there are definite and rather rigid boundaries between what is considered sex and what it is not sex.

Those definitions are not shared by everyone and they tend to fluctuate over time as evidenced by former President Clinton’s attempts to re-define his romantic association with Monica Lewinsky with his now infamous quote “I did NOT have sex with that woman.” Since the sex play they engaged in did not include sexual intercourse, Bill Clinton may not have actually considered what they did (oral sex) to be “actual sex.” Or he may have just been lying.

Either way, his public stance on the topic created an unexpected ripple effect. The grade-schoolers of the day came to believe that oral sex was not sex and once they reached junior high school, they proceeded to engage in unprotected cunnilingus and fellatio resulting in an epidemic of gonorrhea of the throat. The increase in sexually transmitted infections (STI’s) was not only due to the fact that these children were failing to use condoms but it also pointed to their casual approach to oral sex. They simply did not consider it sex so they tended to engage in the behavior as if it was a handshake.

This is just one example of the power of words and how we define them. While I recognize the importance of definitions which assist us in determining what constitutes sexual abuse or what carries the risk of pregnancy or disease, I am also aware of the limitations created by narrow definitions of sex.

By driving a wedge between our spiritual and sexual selves, many of us suffer from the sensation of being disconnected from our sexuality. We assume that we must choose between being spiritual and being “carnal.” People of faith in particular often suffer from profound sexual shame. But even if you have not been inculcated with the “sex is sin” dogma, you probably live with at least a modicum of sexual shame. It is difficult to avoid given our culture’s insistence on pairing “sex and violence” and “sex and scandal.”

Considering that sex is the source of everything we love, it is sad to see it get such a bad rap. If there were no sex, there would be no people – and no animals, no plants, no flowers and therefore no food. Spring is all about sex and flowers are beautiful sex organs. Even the origin of the universe which is postulated as the “Big Bang” sounds suspiciously like an orgasm with ejaculation. And if everything has its origins in sex, how can sex be anything but central to our existence? But again, to take this ride, you have to expand your notion of sex. It isn’t just penis/vagina sex. Sex does not even require genitals. Sex is about energy and sexual energy can be aroused and released in a variety of ways.

Some people prefer genital sex while others enjoy breathing their way to sexual fulfillment through meditation practices such as Tantra. Still others find their bliss in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism). While it can be tempting to judge the sexual orientations and preferences of others when they don’t match our own, as a sexologist I can tell you that all this sexual diversity is a beautiful thing. As long as it is consensual behavior between adults, the opportunity exists to create profound connection and immense pleasure via a multitude of practices. Some sexual practices are used specifically to achieve spiritual connection and enlightenment. To our Western ears, this sounds dangerously sacrilegious or silly at best.

But our sexual energy IS spiritual. Kundalini energy lies at our root chakra and that energy IS sexual. This energy can produce mind-blowing orgasms which can be achieved without a partner and without touching your genitals. This energy is also what fuels our creativity. And kundalini creates the doorway to spiritual enlightenment. Many religions tap into this powerful sexual energy when they become “filled with the Holy Spirit” or engage in other ecstatic spiritual experiences such as “speaking in tongues.” Only the phobias and taboos surrounding the word “sex” blind the faithful to the sexual energy which is an inherent and ever-present component of spirituality.

So what can you do to experience more spirituality in your sex – or more sex in your spirituality? First and foremost you have to let go of your cultural programming. A first step toward this end is education. Read all you can about the history of sex and you will find yourself feeling less and less sexual shame. There really is nothing new under the sun and your grandparents may have been experimenting with sex you thought was only invented for your generation. The “don’t ask – don’t tell” mentality of the military is actually the default setting for most families and communities. Everyone is a sexual being but we are admonished not to talk about it. Often this translates to “don’t think about it” either. So give yourself permission to think about it and then find safe people to talk to.

Talking about your desires and fears helps you come out of your sense of isolation and feeling “terminally unique.” It puts your sexuality and your spirituality in context and can create a sense of community. Online chat rooms can be a place to start discussing sex with others. Just be sure you select an online community which reflects your overall comfort level and objectives. Some chat rooms are really about online masturbation and if that is not what you are seeking you might want to seek a more cerebral crowd.

Another great place to explore your sexuality and spirituality is in a workshop. You can search online or in alternative magazines and newspapers. Many wonderful workshops about sex and spirit are available at locations which serve as ideal vacation destinations too. For instance, several organizations offer tantra workshops as part of dream vacations to Maui, Sedona, etc. You can also find workshops about sex and spirit at retreats such as Harbin or unique social organizations such as OneTaste. If you have any difficulty locating these resources, feel free to drop me an email and I will be happy to share an appropriate link with you.

And of course, you can always seek the advice and guidance of a professional. For instance sex educators and sexologists such as me can assist you in overcoming blocks to your sexual/spiritual birthright. Just remember that sex is not just a healthy part of your life. Sex is your core – emotionally, spiritually and creatively. When you are connected to your sexuality in a life affirming and positive fashion, every other aspect of your life will sing!

Veronica Monet is a Certified Sexologist and Sex Educator. She can help you change the channel on your love life! Whether you want out of a failing marriage or to enjoy more meaningful sex with your mate, Veronica knows what is required to achieve measurable change in your life. Her extensive media credits include CNN, A&E, ABC’s 20/20, FOX News, Bill Maher’s Politically Incorrect and The New York Times. Veronica offers workshops and lectures as well as professional advice on sex, romance, relationships and love. Her book, Sex Secrets of Escorts - Tips from a Pro (Alpha Books 2005), is available in most major bookstores as well as online. Tune into Veronica’s new radio program, The Shame Free Zone, to ask anonymous questions about sex and dating for free: www.bbsradio.com/theshamefreezone. To find out what Veronica can do for you, visit her website: www.sexwithoutshame.com or call toll free at 888.903.0050.

For as long as we know, lovers seal their union with a kiss.  Kissing floods our bodies with an endorphin and dopamine rush and quite literally leave us feeling a little high.  It lowers cortisol “stress” hormones and increases the pleasant oxytocin levels.  Not to mention that it creates a closer intimate feeling between the people exchanging the kiss, which is a the most priceless high of all.

So, let’s talk about the art of the Passionate kiss.  Here are some ideas to try next time you get ready to pucker up:

1.  Always begin with a fresh clean mouth to offer a pleasant taste to your partner.

2.  Look your partner deeply in the eyes and maybe touch their hair or face gently before you lean in to kiss to make sure you have their full attention.

3.  Closing your eyes is optional.  Most people will close their eyes when they kiss to better experience the sensations, but try it with your eyes open too so you can fully experience your partner.

4.  Begin with a soft gentle kiss using just your lips.

5.  Kiss their face, their eyes, their nose, their ears, before returning to their lips.

6.  Trace the outline of their lips with your tongue.

7.  Run your tongue around their teeth and circle their tongue with yours.

8.  Pull their bottom lip or tongue into your mouth and suck gently.

9.  Kiss them wetly and deeply and explore their mouth with your tongue.

10. End with another gentle kiss, or keep going while waves of passion begin to wash over you.

Experiment with different styles and ways of kissing and ask your partner to let you know what they enjoy the most and continue to indulge them in some of the sweetest kisses ever!  You can also kiss and trade a piece of ice, frozen grape or some other tasty treat between the two of you for some added fun to your kissing adventures.

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Here at HappyHer.com, we are passionate about living a sensual lifestyle in all aspects. Sensuality is, in essence, how in tune you are with your senses. Living a sensual life plays a key role in both your sex life and your overall ability to acquire pleasure from life.

Sensuality is healthy and joyful whether you are currently sexually active or not. Feel the wind caress your skin, soak in all the gorgeous sights and sounds. Take time to taste the flavors of this time of year. Allow yourself to leave your mind and come out in the world of tastes, textures, smells, and wonders.

To help get you started thinking more about living more sensuously, we are offering a contest throughout the month of July. Email us to let us know how enjoy a sensual lifestyle, why it leaves you feeling happy, or anything else about sensuality that you feel inspired to share with us.

Your submission can be in the form of a poem, or just a paragraph or two describing your feelings about using your senses to fully enjoy life. Our staff will choose the three best entries and will post them here at our blog, with a link back to your site if you so choose.

Here are the prizes:

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You can email entries to tracy@happyher.com. Deadline for entries is July 31, 2008 and prizes will be awarded the first week of August.

Costumes are a wonderful way to get out of a sexual rut with your partner, and to introduce new techniques and play into your routine.  For example, would you like to try bondage, but aren’t quite sure if you would enjoy it or not?  Try dressing up as a cop that is arresting your partner for his/her crimes and you must handcuff them!  Or, dress as a gangster and allow your partner to arrest and bind you.  Punishment for a crime never got so juicy!

Role-playing with costumes will allow you to release your inhibitions, after all, you must portray your character!  How about dressing as a playful pussycat and ask your partner to make you purr?  Some other ideas:

1.  Pick your partner up as a sexy taxi cab driver and drive them to a secluded area for a little fun in the car, backseat style.
2.  Dress as a cowgirl and then rope and tame that bull!  Make sure and ride ‘em hard while you’re at it.
3.  Dress as a sexy waitress and take his order, make sure you have the whipped topping on your partner for “dessert”.
4.  Dress as a sexy baseball player and go for the homerun, and extra innings!
5.  Dress as a Genie and grant your partner three lustful wishes.
6.  Dress as a stripper, put on some sexy music and tease him for tips.

Make a list of characters you might like to be and start a costume collection so you are ready when opportunity rises.  Get some wigs, different styles of make-up and get totally out of your own character.  You might surprise and delight yourself with allowing other parts of yourself to come out and play.

Accessories like garters, feather boas, feather dusters, handcuffs can all add to the fantasy and become some great sexy toys to play with.  All the extra thought and effort you give this will increase the excitement.  You will be surprised how much you and your partner will enjoy acting out of the ordinary.

The skin is the largest organ in the body, and is often the most overlooked during our sensual play.  We focus on kissing and fondling erotic “hot spots”, but how often do you just enjoy the skin you’re in, or take full pleasure in stimulating your partners skin?

There are literally endless ideas about how you can completely melt your partner into begging for sweet sexual release, without a single kiss and without the usual foreplay activities that are tried, true, and sometimes a bit of a bore if that’s the only thing you are doing to excite your partner.

Stimulating your partner’s skin can relax, excite and even enhance their health!  You can increase their circulation in their skin making each touch exquisitely sensitive and erotic.  There are so many options from the lightest of touches from a feather, a silk scarf, or even your fingertips brushing lightly all over your partner’s body to more intense stimulation.

The word “abrasion” is used a term used in BDSM scenes for some forms of skin play.  Items used for this can be anything from a kitchen scrub brush, to “nettles” which is a plant that has a stinging sensation when rubbed on the body.  If you are interested in exploring more intense skin stimulation, talk to your partner about what they are willing to do, or have done to them first.

If you both agree to try more intense abrasion, then make sure you are in agreement in regard to what parts of the body are okay to “play” with, and what items are acceptable to use.  Remember good aftercare practices if you are going to get extreme, it’s simply good etiquette!  A cool damp washcloth to help cool the skin down, or even first aid cream and band-aids for more intense play are all good ideas to have on hand.  Make sure you both respect the safe word and stop immediately if one or the other of you invoke it.

A great way to experience skin play is start with giving your partner some good visual stimulation.  Approach them in your finest silky or leather lingerie and give them a good look at how fabulous you look.  Then, blindfold them.  They will have the vision of your appearance in their mind, and by cutting off visual stimulation, you will increase the effects of whatever other stimulation you give them.

Once they are blindfolded, and maybe restrained too for some added eroticism, let the games begin!  Take off that lingerie and use it to caress your partner’s body all over.  Now get out your collection of “toys” that you put together in advance and use them on every part of their body.

The way they move, the sounds they make, and their facial expressions will let you know what they find the most pleasurable and exciting.   Watch them closely when you tickle a feather high up on the inside of their thigh, and then softly over their genitals, chances are you’ll see what their “pleasure” face looks like.

A soft nail brush or tooth brush is a great toy to play with too, rub in gentle circles over your body to get a feel for how it might feel to your partner.  Get a feather, the Mini Feather Tickler Vibe, or the Tickle Whip give you many options for sensual play.  A feather boa adds for some titillating action as well.  An absolutely decadent multi-purpose toy is the vibrating hair brush!  You can use it to brush your partner’s hair and their whole body and then flip it over to use the nubby side on them too.

Other items you can use are paint brushes, make-up brushes, exfoliating gloves, the Tickle Bug has wonderful creative possibilities with it’s little “hairs” that tickle and vibrate.  Have a variety of items and try to use a variety of techniques from light caresses, to scratches (Stay mindful of how much your partner has mentioned they would like), to even spankings and “love taps”.  Take your time and allow the anticipation to build of what you will be doing to them next.

Make sure and cover your partner’s entire body.  When you find their “hot” spots, spend a little extra time there and return to those spots throughout your time of “torturing” them.  Remember to get those areas which are usually left alone.  For example the backs of men’s knees are a lesser known, but very erotic spot for them.  Try to get to every square inch of them to learn what your partner’s personal hot spots are.  Save too much attention to the genitals for last though and then really give them a good time there before you allow them to orgasm.

Give it a try and let us know what great ideas you came up with during your lustful experimentations!  We would love to hear from your partner too about how much they begged you for mercy!

When you were younger (whatever that means to YOU), and you were more in lust with your partner, you could not get enough romance and sex!  Your attention was on them and your synergy together.  You had a private small smile on your face at work, in church or temple, and when you were cleaning the house.  You tingled, you sparkled, you felt great.  The anticipation of the next time, the next touch was amazing.

Time passed.  Work and worry about family, finances, whatever now fills a more prominent area of your consciousness.  How did that happen?  Now you get irritated when your partner wants to be intimate, you would rather wait, or sleep, or eat, or rest.  What happened to the sexy, eager, joyful you???

We need to learn to relax.  Breathe. Give ourselves a break.  Men can switch into sexy mode most of the time easier than a woman can, but this article is relevant for everyone.  When you relax. you can pay attention to the moment, pay attention to your partner, pay attention to your fantasies.

Yes, I did mention fantasies.  If you can relax, then your conscious mind lets go of the “real world”.  Your fantasy may just be a dream like memory of a romantic getaway, or it could be a full blown fantasy of an orgy with every movie star that turns you on.  It doesn’t matter.  The imagination can actually cause our body to react, so you can get physically ready for your sexual pursuits through an active fantasy session.

Tantric exercises are amazing.  You can learn to breathe, relax, and stimulate your energies to the point of orgasm without touching.  Amazing.  True.  Check out weekend workshops held near where you live.  Find out what kind of exercises will be done.  Know ahead of time if you will be required to do things in front of other people, or in different levels of undress, before you commit to that particular workshop.  Some people thrive in group naked environments, and others would run out screaming.  Choose the workshop level that will work for you and your partner.

Find out what you need to adjust in your life to be less stressed in general.  Taking a walk, getting more exercise, having someone to talk to about your day, working with a therapist to blast through some issues that you are holding on to, changing your diet (less caffeine?).  Take the steps that are important for YOU.

If you have forgotten that feeling of being in love, or of being in lust - you can rekindle that if you want to.  Plan a romantic getaway, even if it is in part of your house.  You do not have to spend a lot of money to rekindle your romance.  As long as you do not have a problem with alcohol, a light wine can help the mood.  If you are comfortable try toys or costumes, whatever you like.  Be adventurous.  Just DON’T be boring.

I know that by reducing stress, and bringing that spring back into your step, you will be fine!

Written for the Happyher.com Blog June 2008 copyright 2008, Dr. Sally Witt, The Center for Healing & Training, Inc. 215/736-0900

Dr. Sally Witt is a Breakthrough Coach and Hypnotherapist. She has a Ph.D. in Spiritual Counseling, and has a unique background in traditional psychology as well as intense alternative and metaphysical training. She not only provides individuals and families with coaching and individual therapeutic sessions, but she provides support groups, corporate consulting, trainings and demonstrations on a wide variety of topics.

Dr. Witt is also known worldwide for her intuitive and energy healing gifts. She has been a frequent guest on national television and radio programs to talk about her work. She is the author of “Your Mind Holds the Key to Health, Happiness, and Prosperity”, available on Amazon.com. You can contact her at the Center for Healing and Training, Inc. at 215/736-0900. Her website is www.drsallywitt.com. Skype=drsallywitt

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Having a magnificent lingerie wardrobe leaves a woman feeling like a goddess. But if you just leave it in your closet, or put it on for your weekly “hot date” night, it’s not doing you the service it could be doing. Here are some ideas of what you can do to make the most of your lingerie wardrobe.

1. Underwear as outerwear. Creating a professional look and maintaining your own style of sensual pleasure is easy when you add a silky camisole under a suit jacket. Bustiers look great for club wear or evening wear with a skirt or even a sexy pair of jeans. Grab a teddy to wear under that low cut sweater, you’ll look great and feel so sexy! Ultra mini skirts are sexy fun to wear over a pair of leggings and will work for many occasions. Go through your closet and see how you can mix and match different pieces of lingerie with jeans, skirts, business suits, or leggings to create a unique sexy style all on your own.

2. Step out of character. If you normally wear silk and lace, go bold with leather and/or vinyl. You’ll feel risque’ and dangerous. Or, if you typically wear fetish or edgy wear, try out a silky chemise or an elaborately embroidered bustier. You’ll feel so feminine and alluring. Changing your style will help bring out other levels of the luscious woman you truly are.

3. Tantalize your partner when you are getting ready to leave the house by walking around in your favorite lingerie. Even if that isn’t the same lingerie you will end up wearing, it only takes a moment to do a very hot “walk through” to leave your partner’s mouth open and his mind on how sexy you looked for the rest of the evening.

4. Keep it on! You don’t always have to be stark naked in order to have wild and steamy sex. For an erotic eye-candy treat, leave some of your lingerie on. Thigh highs and high heels are some of my favorite, or a bustier and nothing else but your smile will be super hot as well.

5. Bag it! Get two lingerie outfits out. One that’s totally wild and one that’s a bit on the tame side. Put them in two separate gift bags. Let your lover pick a bag, and you wear whatever one is picked!

6. Leave lingerie out on your bed or in the bathroom so your lover will get a peek of what you will be wearing later. They will be thinking of it all day!

7. Tuck a panty or thong in with your partner’s suitcase while they are planning to be away on business. Spritz some of your favorite fragrance on it along with a sexy note of what you want to do when they come home!

8. Don’t forget the bodystockings! Bodystockings go under everything and if you buy the ones with an open bust and open crotch, you don’t have to take them off for your sexiest time of the day. Wear them under a conservative outfit and then surprise your partner when you start to slowly undress.

9. Send something silky and sexy in a thank you card to your partner! Let them know how much they turn you on and how you are looking forward to modeling the item that you sent for them the next time you see them. Expect to hear from them very soon!

10. Leave them at home! Wear a sexy vinyl or leather mini-skirt, silky cami top, and sexy shoes, and nothing else. Let your partner know that you “forgot” to wear your panties. You’ll both stay turned on the whole night.

Can you think of other sexy fun things to do with lingerie? Send us your ideas and thoughts and one of you may win a pair of free HappyHer.com panties just for sharing!

HappyHer.com is passionate about providing every woman with the best collection of lingerie and erotic wear to choose from.  With this in mind, we are excited to announce our new line of Shirley of Hollywood apparel!

Shirley of Hollywood is found in the finest boutiques in America and abroad.  They are one of the oldest and most well established companies in the lingerie industry and with good reason.  Talent, energy, quick response to customer needs, and longevity of key employees all mix together to bring you an array of high quality and fashionable bras, panties, pajamas, robes, bustiers, corsets, and collection sets that can be found on the market today.

Not only does Shirley of Hollywood seem to know what textures, fashions, and features work the best with sexy lingerie, but they also seem to know how to enhance the shape of the everyday woman to perfection.  Along with their wonderful lingerie collections, they have a selection of silicone breast enhancers, push-up pads, and adhesive push-up bras that help make the most out of any outfit.

Shirley of Hollywood also pays special attention to their plus size collection.  They don’t just make a garment a size larger, they know that plus size women have curves and a shape and they tailor fit their garments with extra space where it’s needed while allowing for shape enhancing design in places that are best for flattering every womanly curve.

Check out our Shirley of Hollywood items today!  You are sure to find something for yourself or the best in gifts for your bride-to-be, wife, lover, and any other woman on your list.  We will continue to add pieces from this luscious line, so stay tuned for more Shirley of Hollywood at HappyHer.com.

Anal training is training your body to be able to engage in anal sex. Anal sex is often thought of as gross, or “forbidden”, but done the correct way it can be extremely erotic and sexually satisfying, not messy like you may have imagined. With the right techniques even the most reluctant person can enjoy it and it can become a pleasurable sexual experience.

You can’t expect to make that tiny hole accept something so large as a penis or toy right off the bat though. Training your anus helps to strengthen and make the muscles more elastic like so they will stretch for the sex and then return back to normal without tearing or going through painful penetration. The easiest way is to train is with a partner but you can also do it alone with a graduated toy and lots of lube. The Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit can be used by both sexes and with or without a partner.

Anal sex must be eased into; you don’t want to hurt yourself or your partner. These tips will help both men and women take care of their partners. For an added bonus, any lover can play with the vagina or penis while training the anus. It’s a wonderful feeling.

Women are the most often worried about making a mess. I like to make sure I’m clean first, go potty, wash, and keep some wipes close by just in case. This helps make a lot of our nervousness go away. Next, get comfortable; put a dark sheet or towel on the bed if you’re worried about a mess which most likely will not happen. Start with some very juicy foreplay. Once the heavy petting gets going so will all the juices in your body.

As her vagina becomes moist and she’s aroused, the rest of her body becomes more sensitive as well. The vagina typically becomes so wet that the juices will drip down to lubricate the anus as well. However, the anus does not have a natural lubricant like the vagina so you want to use a very good lube like, Seymore Butt’s Toyz Tushy Tamer, Anal Eaze, or Moist Anal Lube so everything stays nice and wet. We don’t want any dry friction.

Remember the anus is a very small sensitive hole. Use your pinky finger and slowly push it inside. Make sure your finger is well lubricated and what’s the most amazing is when you have your thumb or other hand massaging her clitoris or penetrating her vagina at the same time. This makes me go wild every time and I know she will be so aroused that the feeling inside her anus will bring her intense sexual pleasure. Many women fantasize about taking it in more than one place at the same time and this fits that desire perfectly.

To make it even better try sucking her nipples or French kissing her too then all areas can be covered, fulfilling her dreams or erotic desires. Carefully begin to go from smaller to larger fingers as you put one inside, turn it a little bit, leave it in until you fell the muscles start to relax and then take it out, move to the next size. Keep moving through all the fingers and then begin using two at a time. She’s probably already had an orgasm by now and is begging for a penis or toy to stick in there. But don’t push it in until the muscles have relaxed and the hole is stretched enough to take the girth of your penis or toy. It takes time but its well worth it. Don’t forget there are many toys that can help you along the way as well. The Licorice Twist in an excellent small tip toy graduated toy for beginners or the Beginner’s Butt Plug vibrates and it’s small. Once anal training is worked on, anal sex will be an extraordinary erotic encounter that you’ll always think of and want to enjoy again.

Going at it alone is another way, although not as easy. Get a variety toy kit such as the Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit; there is a very slender one for starting out, and a larger plug for when you’re ready for more. There are even anal beads, lube, and cleaner to make everything easier and more fun. The important thing is be in a comfortable position to use lots of lube.

Tips:
· Wearing a rubber doctor’s type glove makes anal training clean and safe. Once you are done, take the glove off by turning inside out and throw it away.
· Use lots of Lube, Seymore Butt’s Toyz Tushy Tamer, is perfect for anal training.
· Make each other comfortable
· Can be done alone with toys such as the Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit
· Play with their penis or vagina at the same time.

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What is so hot about sexy shoes you may ask? Sexy shoes are adored the world over by men and women alike.

· Sexy high heels help your legs appear longer and more appealing.
· Sexy high heels adjust the way you stand, so your breasts and derriere are accentuated.
· Sexy high heels denote power and confidence which are very sexy traits.
· Sexy high heels give the appearance of smaller feet which is considered more attractive.
· Many men fantasize about their partners wearing high heels for sex, they are that big of a turn on!

Unfortunately, most high heels are uncomfortable and painful to wear and is one reason why many women are hesitant to try them out. But you don’t need to sacrifice comfort for style. Designing shoes that combine style and comfort is key to Ellie Shoes and is one of the reasons for their huge success. The shoes are made with extra padding and to be especially contoured for a woman’s foot to provide shoes that you can wear from the office to the bedroom with ease.

Ellie Shoes is women owned and operated. Who else would know what women need in high heels? They make sure the shoes are made with the highest quality materials and quality standards. They go the extra mile to test each buckle, every lace, every detail, of every shoe to assure the best available. It’s amazing they are so affordable after all the hard work they put into them!

Make sure and pick up a pair of Ellie Shoes for yourself! Better yet, pick out a whole collection, you’ll find a style for every taste from the most tailored to the funkiest.