You heard it right HappyHer.com friends! We have added some wonderfully sensual holiday gifts for those men in our lives. They deserve to be clothed in luxury, and we deserve the eye candy! Keep this gift guide for men handy for those sexy men on your holiday shopping list.

The Charmeuse robe and boxers are very soft and silky. They come in rich colors that set any man’s skin aglow. Any of the boxers, bun huggers, or thongs are perfect stocking stuffers. The stretch velvet boxers are great for boxers or shorts to wear around the house. The seamless boxers have a bit of support, not too much and the HappyHer.com men rave about how good they feel to wear.

A word of caution here! Virile Cologne for Men is POTENT. It contains an aphrodisiac pheromone that drives woman crazy! It does what AXE does for the boys, only it’s for a MAN. When our men wear it, we quite simply don’t get much work done here at the HappyHer.com headquarters, so only buy this for your guy if you plan on enjoying lusty fantasies during your holiday season!

We hope this Gift Guide for Men gives you some ravishing ideas for your man’s holiday surprises! Don’t forget the mistletoe, candles, mood music, and maybe some new sex toys to spoil you guy with, and you’ll be ready to start intimate new holiday traditions never before dreamed of!

Intimate Holiday Gift Ideas are now available at HappyHer.com! Gifts for that special man or woman in your life should always include at least one item that’s a little on the intimate and sexy side. HappyHer.com has put together a collection of holiday lingerie such as sheer lingerie, velvet lingerie, including boxers for men, along with Santa Hats and gloves, dresses and skirts for every holiday party occasion from the bedroom and beyond.

Some of the favorite HappyHer.com picks for holiday gift ideas are the gorgeous little sexy gift stockings, with a surprise crotchless panty inside! The Leopard print trim jacket and sets are also very hot for holiday party and club going! The corsets and skirts make gorgeous formal wear and the babydolls and gowns are super elegant and sexy!

We all need a good holiday this year, more than ever before! We want you to be that HappyHer or Happy Him in your group that brings in the Holiday Spirit to uplift those around you with some sexy good fun! Wear a Santa hat to work and organize the office party. Send an invitation to that special person in your life for a very intimate party for two. Take some time and savor the warmth of good friends and good spirits this time of year.

Gift giving is always a part of the holidays and we are making it easier for you this year by keeping prices lower than most and offering free shipping on any order over $99.95. That way you can treat yourself and your partner!

HappyHer.com makes it easy to find the perfect gift. If you don’t know her size, choose something that is “One Size”, like the delectable four piece set, or the Floral Embroidered Teddy, or a gift certificate so she can choose exactly what she wants the most.

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Here are some more articles that can also help you find the perfect intimate gift!

Guys Buying Guide

Five Steps to Buying the Perfect Lingerie Gift

Gift Guide:  The Right Lingerie at the Right Time

Gift Guide:  How to Match Her Style

Intimate holiday gift ideas can help you create new intimate traditions with your partner! Make sure and order your holiday lingerie early; as they go fast and once they are out of stock, they will not be available again until next year!

Guy’s Buying Guide is now published, just in time for the holidays!  HappyHer.com has put a guy’s buying guide together for you to help take the guess work out of what is the best lingerie for your lady.  It talks about how to buy for their body shape for a flattering look that they’ll love to show off for you.

The Guy’s Buying Guide to buying lingerie for your lady is going to tell you how to pick items for a small-breasted women, large breasted woman, a woman with a big butt and big hips.  You’ll learn a few secrets along the way that ladies will typically not share with you on their own about why they buy the lingerie that they choose from themselves.

We loaded the guide with pictures of corsets, bustiers, gowns, and more to give you a prime example of the type of lingerie your women will adore and flatter her figure in a way that she’ll beg you to keep the lights on!

Check out the Guys Gift Guide by clicking here:  Guys Buying Guide. You’ll want to refer to this often as you shop for your partner for this coming holiday season.  Start shopping now to make sure the items you crave to see on your luscious lady are in stock and in plenty of time for the season!

You might also enjoy Buying the Perfect Lingerie Gift, Buying the Right Lingerie at the Right Time Gift Guide, and How to Match Her Style Gift Guide.  All of these articles will help you become a pro at buying lingerie for your lady.  Her friends will be so jealous when they find out that she has the kind of man that cares enough to buy lingerie she’ll really love for years to come.

Also, make sure and pick up some new novelties, some jewelry and maybe some sexy gloves or candles from our accessories collection.  You’ll make this the sexiest holiday ever with HappyHer.com here to help.  She’ll be Happy and you’ll enjoy all the benefits of her sexy new gifts too!

We got this in an email forwarded to us and thought it would be a fun way to celebrate hump day with you all!

Strippers are fun, sexy, and really know how to dress up and show off.  HappyHer.com loves our stripper friends!  But you don’t have to be a professional stripper to have a fun and sexy stripper name.  Or better yet, go all out and become a stripper, even if it’s just in the privacy of your own home.  There is nothing like the thrill of moving to some sexy music while you get yourself and your partner all hot and bothered by your performance.

Break out that stripper pole, get your sexiest fun stripper lingerie, sexy high heels, and put on some groovy music.  Invite your partner to show up for a special showing of “Your New Stripper Name Here”.  Don’t have a stripper pole yet?  They are all the rage right now, for exercising of all things!  Women that use them for keeping in shape swear by them.  One of the top seller’s is the Carmen Electra Professional Pole Kit.

The Carmen Electra Electra-Pole Professional Pole Kit is a high quality chrome steel sectional pole that requires no extra hardware to use. Completely portable and easy to install.  It includes a carry case and extender pole for high ceilings and can be secured for permanent use. The only hardware you’ll need is your imagination!  Think of how excited your partner will be when they see you wrapped seductively around your stripper pole in a sheer erotic piece of lingerie?

If you’ve never pole danced before, or even if you have and just want some great tips The Art of Pole Dancing Book contains the best information.  It’s written to appeal to beginners.  There are routines for five different personality types to match you perfectly. Whether you’re girly, playful, wild, teasing or outright naughty, there’s a chapter that illustrates with both drawings and words how to execute some of the most scorching-hot moves in the privacy of your own home.

How to pick your own sexy and fun stripper name:

1. Use the third letter of your first name to determine your new first
name:
a = Chesty
b = Fantasia
c = Starr
d = Diamond
e = Montana
f = Angel
g = Sugar
h = Pinky
I = Lola
j =Kitty
k = Roxie
l = Dallas
m = Princess
n = Heidi
o = Bambi
p = Bunny
q = Brandy
r = Sugar
s = Candy
t = Raquelle
u = Sapphire
v = Cinnamon
w = Blaze
x = Trixie
y = Isis
z = Jade

2. Use the second letter of your last name to determine the first half
of your new last name:
a = Leather
b = Dream
c = Sunny
d = Deep
e = Heaven
f = Tight
g = Shimmer
h = Velvet
i = Lusty
j = Harley
k = Passion
l = Dazzle
m = Dixie
n = Spank
o = Glitter
p = Razor
q = Meadow
r = Glitzy
s = Sparkle
t = Sweet
u = Silver
v = Tickle
w = Cherry
x = Hard
y = Night
z = Amber

3. Use the third letter of your last name to determine the second half
of your new last name:
a = hooters
b = horn
c = tower
d = fire
e = thighs
f = hips
g = side
h = jugs
i = shock
j = cock er
k = brook
l = tush
m = sizzle
n = storm
o = kiss
p = bomb
q = cream
r = thong
s = heat
t = whip
u = cheeks
v = rock
w= hiney
x = button
y = lick
z = juice

Share your stripper name with us here and get 10% off a stripper pole or any other HappyHer.com item.  Good from now until November 30th.

Traditionally the story has been walk into bar, see someone you want to get to know, buy a drink and some time, then run your magic. Because of what society tells us is important about ourselves we talk about our jobs, education, and future. That being the ordinary situation one must ask oneself if being ordinary is acceptable. For some people it will be and I wish you luck in this. But for others and hopefully most ordinary is not acceptable.

What are some ways one can be considered extraordinary. Eric Von Markovic once said say one interesting thing and what you said was interesting, say ten interesting things, the person saying those things become interesting. Work on using your best quality to shine and control your conversation. If it’s humor be funny, if it’s intellect be smart, and so on. Once it comes time to leave and you want to keep contact with the person this is when most inexperienced people freeze.

The butterflies that were there when you first sparked a conversation are back and you have to fight that to get the goal. There are no ways to land every number every time or else i’d have nothing to write about. My best practices are as follows…

1. Let the other person give you their number, that way you don’t feel like you look like a creep.

2. Play with your phone a little bit, it will calm you down a little bit as well as put the phone number in their head.

3. If they don’t have the idea say something to lead them on such as ‘it would be nice to talk like this again’ or ‘I enjoyed your company we should do this again.’

4. Put your personality into it, don’t stick to one line or routine the whole time.

Once you have the number you stepped into a whole new world. What are the new rules, and what is the best thing to do while texting or calling? This topic can literally be put into a book but don’t worry I will write a full article geared totally towards texting and calling.

If someone wants a guaranteed better social life then the best thing he or she can do is practice. Go out and start conversations with everyone, attractive, young, old, short, fat, skinny it doesn’t matter. Once you get better at the dynamics of social interaction and conversation you’ll be able to react to people that you want to meet a lot more smoothly.

As always if there are any specific topics you want me to cover e-mail me at atogliatti@gmail.com.

Also, if you have any tips or experiences that have worked for you, please let us know!  Happyher.com loves to hear from you!

Leather lingerie and Vinyl fetish wear from Happyher.com is the ultimate in sexy bedroom and club wear!  Our new lines are now available just in time for the dropping temperatures!  Take your pick of exotic styles of skirts, mini skirts, leather or vinyl corsets, leather and vinyl collection sets, and more.  Pair these items with sexy hosiery and shoes, and you will create a look using leather lingerie that your partner will long remember and relish!

Exotic leather lingerie and vinyl wear will rev up your love life!

The next time you go dancing at a club, try wearing a leather skirt, or if you dare, a leather mini skirt, or flirty vinyl mini skirt!  A high waist skirt made of leather or vinyl will really show off your waist. A leather lace up skirt comes in different lengths–short and shorter–so you can achieve the best look for your body. A mini skirt will provide club members with the ultimate visual titillation that you can offer, and they look great with v-neck leather halter tops or vinyl cami top.

Risque leather lingerie comes in collection sets that are made to complement each other and your body perfectly. There is a wide variety of bra and panty sets, all in supple leather, from which you can choose. Happyher.com offers shopping privacy, because you are shopping from home, and you can therefore really let your imagination run wild with alluring possibilities. Chains, fringe, fishnet and g-strings all add to the racy nature of these wardrobe items.

Vinyl fetish wear is shiny and made of the highest quality vinyl.  From sexy vinyl pants, to vinyl g-strings, dresses, or booty shorts, you are sure to find something that will create a sexy and unique statement all your own.

Leather lingerie and vinyl wear also includes corsets. Leather corsets and vinyl are available with fronts that have a full lace up, or zippers up the front. Nothing can lift and enhance like a corset.  Wear it for pleasure and for fun.  They look great under a jacket or all on their own.

Enticing black leather lingerie, and sexy vinyl wear brought to you by Happyher.com, might be the perfect gift for yourself or for a friend who is getting married soon. How about a black leather teddy for the wedding night? A fishnet leather teddy is a sheer and sexy look. An alternative might be a leather bikini teddy, with straps in all the right places. Leather and lace combine to make a teddy that is both sweet and seductive. A babydoll is flattering for many figure types, and now you can raise the seduction level to a whole new height by selecting one made out of black leather.

Or, how about a sweet new Vinyl fetish wear outfit for the new rave or event in your local fetish community?  Or a pair of vinyl thongs under your next business suit, for a seductive feeling only you will be aware of.  How Sensual!

Leather lingerie and vinyl fetish wear is coming out of the dungeons and into the mainstream.  Pick up some new pieces for yourself or your partner today!

So its game time, you’re out at a club, a bar, restaurant or a public place with many eligible singles. What to do? In the world of pick-up there are a set of rehearsed opening lines and a whole set up routine that you need to follow. I find that this is not the best route to go, as everyone you know is different. So what are the best ways to approach someone that you want to spark a conversation with? During the initial walk over, approach indirectly in almost a half-circle to their side. This is the less aggressive way and makes the new people you’re talking to more comfortable with you.

Once you do this, you need to hook them with something good. The best things are asking for advice, a half-assed compliment or a story. You can’t just walk up and say any story that comes to mind. It has to be something that either can involve them or someone they know.  The half-assed compliment could be anything from nice shirt to nice butt depending on how balls-y your feeling. Asking for advice is the best as it is non-threatening and involves them. Once you have them hooked this way you can move to a few different social skills. The purpose of the time after the opening line or topic is to show the person you’re talking to why you are better than anyone else they can talk to. Try to stay away from small talk and try to say things that not everyone will say. If you start small talk what makes you different from everybody else there?  Say something that will bring attention to you and shows a good quality or trait about yourself.

Some examples would be interesting conversation, good joke, or small flirting. You don’t want to push too hard but you do want to push a little. You are the best thing there, and they need to know that. This works well with males and females. There is an entire off-shoot community based off of this for males, but they haven’t been able to figure out how to teach social dynamics for females yet. The reasons for this are males are too big of judges of physical appearance and girls who were asked what they want to see physically in a guy said clean shoes. The reason they said clean shoes is because clean shoes shows that not only are you more than likely clean, but you either have money or clean your shoes, which not many people especially single guys take the time to make sure their shoes are squeaky clean.

If you have a unique approach to meeting that special new friend, HappyHer.com wants to know!

Social proof is probably my biggest strong point in Mansfield OH. Social proof is where people know you or have heard of you. When i was in high school I was pretty nuts and people started hearing about the dumb stuff I did (like leaving gym class during a fire alarm just wearing a towel). When I go out to pick up after the opener, I get the name and area of town the target lives in, I do what I can to see if she knows certain people. Such as if she’s from Lexington (a district in Mansfield) I’ll ask if she knows my friend Anthony, Dan, Doolie or so on.

This is a huge thing if you want the target to drop his/her guard with you. Most places can’t do this because bigger cities such as New York and San Diego it’s impossible to know everyone, but once the target understands that you’re universally socially accepted she/he becomes much more comfortable with you.

Things you can do without social proof to make it seem like you are insanely popular are kind of limited. What I do is tell epic-sounding stories. Stories that show a strong and good characteristic that you have and feel like it should be portrayed are the best way to humbly show that you rock. Lately though, I haven’t been polite like that. I find it is better to be loud, a little egotistical and rude. I’m not preaching that assholes finish first but here is a situation that happened to me where I exuded social proof.

I was bored one day when a friend called me up and asked me to meet him at Starbucks. I agreed and made my way there, upon arriving I noticed a very attractive blonde and brunette sitting inside. I made my way in and sat down right next to them.

“Hey, I need the female opinion on something real quick, I gotta get back to my friends real quick.” I then pointed to a huge group of people implying that I was there with all of them. “My friend Bryson and I are having a debate, is it better to approach girls and beat around the bush like ask what time it is, or is it better to just come up and say you look like someone fun and cool that I would like to get to know.” They both responded with it depends on what kind of a guy it is. They said some guys would be ‘creepers’ others would be acceptable. I then asked where I stood. They both said I wouldn’t be a creeper because I came with so many people. This is an example as to how having friends help you with the opposite sex. If enough people accept you and hang out with you why wouldn’t they? On the opposite side if enough people don’t accept you why would they?

Editorial Comment:  Words of Wisdom from HappyHer.com’s newest writer, Angelo Togliatti.  Use his suggestions this week and let us know how it works for you!

I had the opportunity to meet Veronica Monet during a professional networking program and my first impressions of her were delightful.  I felt compelled to order her book “Sex Secrets of Escorts”.  I thought it would be along the lines of the Happy Hooker and wasn’t quite sure what I would get out of it, but was still very curious.  As a Sexual Enhancement Specialist, I wasn’t expecting much in the way of new information.  I was delightfully mistaken!

Veronica Monet talks about all aspects of good sex, good relationships and really gives a great inside view into the minds of men.  She has a writing style that is easy to follow and it feels like she’s sitting in your room talking with you about things you really want to hear and learn about.

Sex Secrets of Escorts should be required reading for all young adult women coming of age.  I would suggest it for men as well It talks about self-care, communication, setting boundaries, and most importantly of all, the importance of having standards and being able to say NO and mean it!  Safer sex is emphasized throughout the book as well, but doesn’t overshadow the joy and fun that sex should be.

Of course let’s not forget the sex secrets!  Even the most advanced of us will pick up some great new tips for some mind blowing sex with our partners.  I won’t spoil the book by pointing any of them out, but I’ve added a few items to the list of “Things to do” for my partner and I to try out that I’m really looking forward to.  She gives some great pointers about using toys and accessories and mentions the importance of lingerie quite often.

I would suggest this book for anyone, male or female and regardless if you have a partner now or intend to have sex anytime in the future.  The book is available through Amazon. Veronica Monet, ACS is a Certified Sexologist and Sex Educator, Ordained Minister, Trained Volunteer against Rape and Domestic Violence.  You can read more about here here:  http://veronicamonet.wordpress.com/, http://thereallivehoshow.blogspot.com/, http://www.sexwithoutshame.com/pblog/index.php,
http://www.swop-usa.org/blog/6, or check out her new radio program, The Shame Free Zone:
http://www.bbsradio.com/theshamefreezone/.  You can also contact Veronica for help and healing at http://www.sexwithoutshame.com.

HappyHer.com will be giving away one copy of the book at the end of November.  For your chance to win, register for the blog and stay tuned!

Candles have always been associated with romantic interludes.  From creating a warm soft light, to lightly scenting the air, they are one of the number one items to use to create the sexiest ambience for your sensual moments alone in a bubble bath, or with your partner.

Edible candles are the newest sexy crave!  These soy candles are fragrant with flavor such as cherry edible candles, chocolate edible candles, strawberry edible candles, peach edible candles, and watermelon edible candles.

The candles are 100% vegan, non-toxic, fragrant, and melt into a warming, silky massage oil.  Eight natural oils including Hemp Seed, Vitamin E, Jojoba, and Almond oil.  The oils penetrate and moisturize the skin leaving it feeling scrumptiously soft and alive.  After a sensual massage, let the oral delight begin!  Your mouth will water as you taste the yummy flavors.  Use two or more different flavors, such as chocolate and strawberry for an even more delicious experience!

For an even more sensual delight, blindfold your partner, and maybe even restrain them as you allow the candles to burn down and drip the oil onto different body parts.  Your partner will be taken to new heights of sensual bliss while you get the yummiest of deserts.  Or, leaving the blindfold on, drip the wax on your own body parts and let your lover lick them off and guess what flavor candle you used.  The possibilities are unlimited.

Candles will always be an item to stay stocked up on for your sensual times.  Stock up on these yummy soy candles today for a candle that will really work for you in a variety of ways.