Pure sex, plain and simple, no toys, or bells and whistled involved. It’s just two bodies enjoying each other to the fullest. This is the best sex for stimulating your emotional intimacy, with yourself or with your partner.

If you are on the kinkier side of the spectrum, you may call it “vanilla sex”. Vanilla can be absolutely luscious and it’s why Vanilla ice cream is still so popular after all. So, no matter what else you might like to indulge in, do make it a point to keep vanilla sex as part of your repertoire!

Let’s look at some ways to get those romantic juices flowing when you are preparing for your Vanilla Sex Dates:

• If you are going to indulge yourself in decadent body lotions and perfumes, make sure you do this a few hours before your partner will get the opportunity to “taste” you. You want your partner to taste your own delicious flavor, not the flavor of the perfume.

• Break out the romantic lingerie! This is such a fun event to spend time getting ready for, make is special for both of you by dressing up for the occasion!

• Ambience is everything. Get out the candles. A tip here is to make sure scents stay subtle; you want them to barely linger in the air. So just use one or two scented candles, then use unscented candles for lighting purposes.

• Put some romantic music on. It will help sooth the senses and put a gorgeous backdrop against the sultry sighs, moans, and pillow talk the two of you will be sharing.

• Don’t forget the lube! Even vanilla sex might need lube on occasion to help keep the comfort levels up. Have it on hand just in case.