Staying with our theme of using all of our senses for our sexual adventures let me ask you, what do you hear that is sexy?

Ambient music can mean many different things to many different people. I prefer electronica or my favorite, the sound of the ocean with the birds singing in the background. Those are the sounds that really do it for me. Of course, the sexiest sound for me is hearing my partner all turned on and wanting more.

I lose the ability to form rational words when I’m in the throes of passion, so talking dirty is usually MMMMMmmmm, OOOOOOooooh, AAAAhhhhh, but when I’m communicating with just those sounds, I can tell my partner gets doubly turned on and of course it does the same for me. So really let yourself go next time you are passionately involved, even if it’s just you in the “act”. Listen to how you sound, or how your partner sounds and see what that does for your libido.

Keeping with the idea that foreplay starts in the morning, nothing is sexier than hearing a voice mail message from a partner, describing in detail what they want to do to you. Hearing the passion in their voice just puts me in the mood and keeps me there until I can hear them whispering in my ear in person and preferably naked and ready to go.

Water sounds are scintillating as well. Keeping a water fountain in your favorite passion place can help keep you turned on to the more sensual aspects of life as you go through your day. It also helps keep you relaxed, which always helps enhance pleasure.

So, let’s hear it, what sounds really do it for you? Is it bluesy, grinding classic rock, or Enya style music? Maybe it’s not music, but something else. Spend some time listening for what aurally stimulates you and then share it with the rest of us.