When talking about using all of our senses for our sexual pleasure, the sense of touch seems more than obvious. Let’s take it a little further though.

Our skin is the largest organ on our body. With millions of nerves running all through your body, every part of you responds to touch. How do the clothes feel on your body, is there a gentle breeze deliciously caressing you? What feelings turn you on the most? Is it vinyl or leather sitting smoothly, yet strongly against your skin, or is it the feel of silk that lightly sways against you at the most luscious of moments?

Do you like the feel of super soft bed sheets while you are caressing yourself, or getting caressed by your partner, or does the feel of restraints firmly holding you in place do it for you the most? I know for me, it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I like soft as a whisper touches, and other times I want pushed over the edge of my preconceived limits.

Spend some time and stroke your body all over, softly, roughly, give a little smack. What does your body respond to? Being tuned into the sensations your body responds to most, then being able to communicate that to your partner, or giving yourself those pleasures, will greatly enhance your overall sensual experiences.

Get a feather, a whip, an ice cube, play with your entire body, from the tips of your toes to the top of your head, really explore as many different textures and touches you can think of. Then come back and tell us what does it the most for you.