Books, videos, lectures, classes, every sort of educational opportunity are given on how to improve your sex life and sexual performance. Little information is given on truly great sexual experiences though. Those are the experiences that incorporate all of your senses. By all your senses, I mean everything, sight, sounds, taste, touch, tastes, mental and emotional senses. When stimulation comes into play across the board of all of your senses, that my succulent friend, is where true great sex is created!

So, where do we start? Let’s start with the obvious and work our way from there. Visual stimulation can get your juices going like no other, especially for men. But it’s not just the obvious, it’s the whole picture. Look around where you are going to have sex. Have you gone dust bunny hunting lately? Yes, dears, clean your space first! How seductive can you be when you have to kick a pile of trash out of the way before you pounce on your partner? If you’re going solo, you still deserve a clean place to experience your passion.

So, let’s start with a dust cloth, not so sexy, but the end result will add some luscious ambience where the piles of books and left over pizza had begun. If you want to make it a more exciting experience, put on a sexy French Maid Costume, or clean naked. Now that’s a little sexier and you’re still taking care of business!

After the dirty work is out of the way, what other visual stimulations can we offer ourselves and/or our partners? How about movies, erotic art, or candle light? What about black lights? Those can add a wonderfully surreal effect.

What are you wearing, now? Make it sexy and take it off slowly, or for a very cool effect, leave a little of it on sometimes. A pair of thigh highs and stilettos looks great when your legs are spread eagle in the air. Or, how about dripping with rhinestone jewelry and nothing else? Or, leather, vinyl, or crotchless undies and shelf bras. Use your imagination and start a collection of delectable sex clothes, it will add completely new dimensions to your regular sex.

Mirrors can be magical! Place mirrors in strategic places so you can watch. Setting a video cam up and watching yourself later can be a real treat too, but be careful with this, you wouldn’t want videos to get in the wrong hands!

Keep your eyes open and look around for what you think is sexy. Do it all day and see how many arousing sights there are in your world. I’d love to hear what you come up with!