Much like a woman’s g-spot, men also have a special place of erotic pleasures. It’s called the A-spot. The the A-spot is actually the prostate. Prostate massage can be extremely stimulating for a man and lead to very powerful orgasms and ejaculation. It also has many medical benefits as well. It’s easy to find the A-spot with either your finger or a special toy, and can provide strong repeated orgasms.

Before you begin you might want to get a few items to help. A finger condom or some sort of latex glove is very important to protect you and your partner. Make sure your nails are not sharp or you may want to cover them with some type of bandage pad. You will need an anal lube. The anus doesn’t produce a natural lubricant and lube is the key to making it comfortable. The “Finger in the Ace” kit is one of the best for anal play. You may also want to keep some baby wipes or towels close by for an easy cleanup.

First off have the man lay on his back with his pelvis elevated a little by using towels or pillows to help position him. Then with your palm facing up, slowly insert one finger into his anus. It is extremely important that you use lots of lubricant. The anus is a very delicate, tight area. If your man is really tight and tense push your finger in a little bit and hold it still until his body adjusts to the penetration and then move in some more. You may have to slide up little by little working your way up to the prostate. Once he has started relaxing you can bring you finger in and out of his anus loosening him up. This will help relax all the muscles in and around the anus. When you can get your finger completely inside of him slowly curl it up towards his belly. You should feel a lump about the size of a walnut. This is the prostate, gently rub or stroke it and soon you will notice him enjoying it.

You don’t have to use your finger to stimulate the prostate. It is easy to reach with toys also. The Jelly First Timer Anal Vibe can help find and massage the A-spot. Also, practicing fellatio and stimulating the prostate at the same time will make your man burst with excitement.