The G-spot is known for making a woman collapse in ecstasy but many people don’t know how to find it. Sometimes luck plays a role in reaching the G-spot, while having sex in a particular position giving the woman an intense orgasm. The G-spot is not hard to find once you know where it is, you can reach it by hand or toy and not need intercourse to obtain the rush of erotic tingles.

The G-spot is about the size of a pea but when stimulated can swell to the size of a walnut. To find it by yourself, you may need to be in a sitting position. Start by inserting one or two fingers into your vagina. The G-spot is positioned straight up towards the belly like at twelve o’clock. Bend your fingers upwards and make a come here motion. It might take a few tries to find it but the spot is between the vaginal opening and cervix typically about two inches inside.

Sometimes it can be hard to find this sweet little spot if you are all ready engorged from stimulation. There are many vibrating and massaging toys that can help. The Krystal Fantasy G-spot, Rock & Roll Rabbit, or the Slimline Jelly G-spot Finder are excellent. The Bedroom Party Pack offers a variety of G-spot and other slip covers for the vibrator to extend your pleasures.

For a partner to find it should be much easier by inserting their fingers with the palm facing up. They can make a hand closing motion and stimulate the clitoris with their thumb while tickling the G-spot. This will be extremely erotic for the woman, whether she feels her G or not. Try not to focus on hitting the spot exactly, that can be more distracting than helpful, in time you will find it but the most important thing is let her be excited.

It’s often easiest for the penis that is pointed upwards to hit the g-spot. If your penis leans to the left or right, position yourself during sex so your penis will hit her spot. Laying her on her side and entering her by splitting her legs like scissors holding one up in the air and leaving the other between your legs often helps position. Just make sure she lies facing whichever side your penis leans.

Typically when the woman is on top, she can move your penis to where ever she wants it. It’s always a good thing to let her have control of your penis. You can both be fulfilled by letting her have her way. There are some women that don’t get orgasm from the G-spot but sex will be pleasurable whether you hit the spot or not, and others can completely ejaculate from it. The important thing is just keep working her erotic points leaving her satisfied better than she ever imagined!