Our sense of touch and feel brings on all sorts of erotic quivers.  The gentle slide of a finger, the chill of an ice cube or tickle of a feather makes us moist with pleasures. The drip of hot wax will grant our bodies a new erotic feeling. The quick burst of heat sends a shock and awe through us. The key to using hot wax is to be comfortable with the intensity of the wax.

The best way to start with hot wax play is with a smaller candle. A birthday candle or tapered candle are usually best because there is only a small amount of wax dripping off and much lower temperature than larger candles. You can start by putting the wax onto your finger and then rubbing it onto their belly, thigh, neck or arm. This will get them accustomed to the sensations. It will be smooth and slightly warm to them and quite pleasurable.  In order to get more from your hot wax experience and to see your partner rise up with excitement, its nice to just let the wax drip onto your partner directly from the candle. The closer you allow the wax to drip from the heat source the hotter the wax will be.  If you hold the candle high and let it drip onto your partner it will splat and spread letting the smoothness of the wax quickly cool and tingle the body. This is very nice on the lower back and rubbed onto the buttocks.  After the initial sting, it’s warm and soothing much like a heated massage.

You can always turn up the fun by getting larger candles giving you more amounts of wax with each pour.  There are specialty candles such as Johni Black’s Sensual Hot Wax Set that burn at a much lower temperature than a typical house candle and it comes with a satin mask so your partner will be left in mystery of every touch.

Incorporating hot wax into your boudoir adventures can be a great sexual experience, reaching new levels of arousal and erotic explorations. Talk to your partner and listen to them if they tell you it is too hot or if it hurts, find the right intensity that works your pleasures. The important thing is never let the wax go into any orifice or on the face. It is possible to be burned and cause damage to sensitive areas.