Anal training is training your body to be able to engage in anal sex. Anal sex is often thought of as gross, or “forbidden”, but done the correct way it can be extremely erotic and sexually satisfying, not messy like you may have imagined. With the right techniques even the most reluctant person can enjoy it and it can become a pleasurable sexual experience.
You can’t expect to make that tiny hole accept something so large as a penis or toy right off the bat though. Training your anus helps to strengthen and make the muscles more elastic like so they will stretch for the sex and then return back to normal without tearing or going through painful penetration. The easiest way is to train is with a partner but you can also do it alone with a graduated toy and lots of lube. The Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit can be used by both sexes and with or without a partner.
Anal sex must be eased into; you don’t want to hurt yourself or your partner. These tips will help both men and women take care of their partners. For an added bonus, any lover can play with the vagina or penis while training the anus. It’s a wonderful feeling.
Women are the most often worried about making a mess. I like to make sure I’m clean first, go potty, wash, and keep some wipes close by just in case. This helps make a lot of our nervousness go away. Next, get comfortable; put a dark sheet or towel on the bed if you’re worried about a mess which most likely will not happen. Start with some very juicy foreplay. Once the heavy petting gets going so will all the juices in your body.
As her vagina becomes moist and she’s aroused, the rest of her body becomes more sensitive as well. The vagina typically becomes so wet that the juices will drip down to lubricate the anus as well. However, the anus does not have a natural lubricant like the vagina so you want to use a very good lube like, Seymore Butt’s Toyz Tushy Tamer, Anal Eaze, or Moist Anal Lube so everything stays nice and wet. We don’t want any dry friction.
Remember the anus is a very small sensitive hole. Use your pinky finger and slowly push it inside. Make sure your finger is well lubricated and what’s the most amazing is when you have your thumb or other hand massaging her clitoris or penetrating her vagina at the same time. This makes me go wild every time and I know she will be so aroused that the feeling inside her anus will bring her intense sexual pleasure. Many women fantasize about taking it in more than one place at the same time and this fits that desire perfectly.
To make it even better try sucking her nipples or French kissing her too then all areas can be covered, fulfilling her dreams or erotic desires. Carefully begin to go from smaller to larger fingers as you put one inside, turn it a little bit, leave it in until you fell the muscles start to relax and then take it out, move to the next size. Keep moving through all the fingers and then begin using two at a time. She’s probably already had an orgasm by now and is begging for a penis or toy to stick in there. But don’t push it in until the muscles have relaxed and the hole is stretched enough to take the girth of your penis or toy. It takes time but its well worth it. Don’t forget there are many toys that can help you along the way as well. The Licorice Twist in an excellent small tip toy graduated toy for beginners or the Beginner’s Butt Plug vibrates and it’s small. Once anal training is worked on, anal sex will be an extraordinary erotic encounter that you’ll always think of and want to enjoy again.
Going at it alone is another way, although not as easy. Get a variety toy kit such as the Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit; there is a very slender one for starting out, and a larger plug for when you’re ready for more. There are even anal beads, lube, and cleaner to make everything easier and more fun. The important thing is be in a comfortable position to use lots of lube.
Tips:
· Wearing a rubber doctor’s type glove makes anal training clean and safe. Once you are done, take the glove off by turning inside out and throw it away.
· Use lots of Lube, Seymore Butt’s Toyz Tushy Tamer, is perfect for anal training.
· Make each other comfortable
· Can be done alone with toys such as the Legend Toyz Anal Trainer Kit
· Play with their penis or vagina at the same time.
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