Cockrings are most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, and to delay and heighten orgasm. They work by constricting blood flow and keep blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come and because the penis is filled with additional blood.

A cockring should feel comfortable to wear and shouldn’t cut off circulation completely, just enough to enhance your experience.  Adjustable cockrings are the best to start with as you can tighten or loosen them at will.  The Soft Rubber Erection Ring is a great cockring for first time users.

There are metal, rubber, leather, and plastic styles.  If you choose a cock ring that is not adjustable, you want to make sure you get the right size.  One that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely, which is not the goal.

Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, they could cause some very uncomfortable effects.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect. Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft goes in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard in case it becomes uncomfortable. Using lube is a good idea to help putting rings on and taking them off.

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are most likely going to occur.

Some cockrings have additional stimulating accessories, such as the Love Tapper Cockring, or cockrings that have vibrators or detachable bullets are incredible for both partners, like the Mega Stretch Vibrating Cockring.  You can adjust the cock ring to where the vibrator offers the most pleasurable sensations for both of you.

If you are a man, get a cockring and practice with it by yourself when you masturbate to get used to how it feels and how to adjust it for a smoother experience with your partner.  If you are a woman, surprise your guy by slowly slipping the cockring on and starting with some oral sex to give him a thrill he won’t soon forget!