I had the opportunity to meet Veronica Monet during a professional networking program and my first impressions of her were delightful.  I felt compelled to order her book “Sex Secrets of Escorts”.  I thought it would be along the lines of the Happy Hooker and wasn’t quite sure what I would get out of it, but was still very curious.  As a Sexual Enhancement Specialist, I wasn’t expecting much in the way of new information.  I was delightfully mistaken!

Veronica Monet talks about all aspects of good sex, good relationships and really gives a great inside view into the minds of men.  She has a writing style that is easy to follow and it feels like she’s sitting in your room talking with you about things you really want to hear and learn about.

Sex Secrets of Escorts should be required reading for all young adult women coming of age.  I would suggest it for men as well It talks about self-care, communication, setting boundaries, and most importantly of all, the importance of having standards and being able to say NO and mean it!  Safer sex is emphasized throughout the book as well, but doesn’t overshadow the joy and fun that sex should be.

Of course let’s not forget the sex secrets!  Even the most advanced of us will pick up some great new tips for some mind blowing sex with our partners.  I won’t spoil the book by pointing any of them out, but I’ve added a few items to the list of “Things to do” for my partner and I to try out that I’m really looking forward to.  She gives some great pointers about using toys and accessories and mentions the importance of lingerie quite often.

I would suggest this book for anyone, male or female and regardless if you have a partner now or intend to have sex anytime in the future.  The book is available through Amazon. Veronica Monet, ACS is a Certified Sexologist and Sex Educator, Ordained Minister, Trained Volunteer against Rape and Domestic Violence.  You can read more about here here:  http://veronicamonet.wordpress.com/, http://thereallivehoshow.blogspot.com/, http://www.sexwithoutshame.com/pblog/index.php,
http://www.swop-usa.org/blog/6, or check out her new radio program, The Shame Free Zone:
http://www.bbsradio.com/theshamefreezone/.  You can also contact Veronica for help and healing at http://www.sexwithoutshame.com.

HappyHer.com will be giving away one copy of the book at the end of November.  For your chance to win, register for the blog and stay tuned!