We would like to introduce and thank our Partners and Official Sponsors for their generosity and support of the 101 Day Sex Challenge.
Let’s meet our Hostess:
Our in-house intimacy specialist has agreed to to be the 101 Day Sex Challenge Coach and will be working closely with the couples during this exciting time in their lives. HappyHer.com is also sending out “care packages” along the way as well as having some random drawings throughout the 101 days. a 15% off discount coupon code will also be given to all couples and a $100.00 gift certificate will be gifted to the Grand Prize Winners.
The 101 Day Sex Challenge Partners:
Veronica Monet (www.veronicamonet.com)
Veronica Monet is a Certified Sexologist, Conflict Resolution Specialist and Relationship Expert. She’s also very busy with lectures and interviews with top colleges, television programs and radio. With all of that going on, she’s still found the time to write “Sex Secrets of the Escorts” which has been listed in the top ten of sex manuals. Veronica will be offering a mini session via phone and a free erotic DVD to the winners. Also, a copy of her book “Sex Secrets of the Escorts” will be given away during a random drawing.
Lust Cosmetics (www.lustcosmetics.com)
Lust Cosmetics has a shared philosophy that the world would be a better place if everyone was getting a little more action on a regular basis. The products from Lust Cosmetics are of the highest quality, hormone free, with all natural ingredients that are affordable for every day use. They work so well to encourage a healthy libido the team seriously considered putting caution labels on each of their products! Lust Cosmetics will be sending full size samples of Lust for Double O and Arousal Mist to the first ten couples that register for the 101 Sex Day Challenge. They will also provide a gift basket valued at $100.00 to the final 2 contestants.
The 101 Day Sex Challenge Official Sponsors:
Krisanna Jeffery (www.GreatSexForLifeToolkit.com)
Krisanna Jeffery, Registered Clinical Counsellor and Certified Sex Educator is offering her Great Sex for Life Toolkit (Playbook, DVD and CD) as a prize for some lucky contestant. To encourage couples to focus on how to build sexual intimacy she will also make her Toolkit vailable to all contestants for a 25% reduced cost. She has also written a wonderful article about Why Sex Matters, right here on this blog.
Hunter’s Romantic Secrets (www.Romantic-Secrets.com)
Hunter’s Romantic Secrets is a unique boutique for the softer side of romance. Only the finest romance games, bath and body, flameless candles, rose petals, and much more. They are offering two $10.00 Gift Certificates to two of our lucky couples and a coupon code for all of the couples for 20% off any order.
Liquid Syn (www.liquidsyn.com)
Liquid Syn is products has been specifically developed to help make your SYNful moments as enjoyable as possible. They have lubricant and enhancement products that are pure, simple, and very effective. They will be giving away some samples of the liquid O and liquid Syn to some of our lucky couples.
Alorah Inanna
Alorah Inanna is a completely wild and unique human being who is living her life as a Goddess Alive. Having spent many long years in the seminar business teaching relationship from the front of the room, she realized at some point that people were never going to get to intimacy from talking, thinking or sitting in chairs. She also realized that what people most needed were sensual practices that are fun and creative, forming pathways that can take you to sex but are also fulfilling in their own right. She then developed what she calls Doorways to Intimacy – 5 Easy Practices that consistently take you to Union and Love. Alorah will be providing us with some very creative and body-based methods for having more fun in the bedroom of love.
Registration for the couples will remain open until the October 17th start date. Remember, there are no fees of purchases required to be involved in this event. So if you think you are ready to take the Challenge, send us an email today!
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6 responses so far ↓
1 Krisanna JEffery // Sep 21, 2009 at 3:32 pm
As my partner and I debate with ourselves about whether or not we are up to the challenge we are examining what exactly our fears are in committing to the 101 days. Is anyoneone else having the same struggle?
2 Jaxxx // Sep 21, 2009 at 6:26 pm
You’re not alone. Fears, yes. It took me 6 years to commit to get married due to a previous marriage gone terribly bad. There’s a lot of issues that come up… like what if we get into a fight. My routine is to shut down or withdrawal. It’s hard for me to want sex when I feel hurt/resentments. But, I’m viewing this as an opportunity to learn many things… grow… and of course have a lot of fun too. If we fall short on the challenge, we’re still moving in the right direction.
3 Veronica Monet, ACS // Sep 22, 2009 at 5:07 am
Fear lets you know you are alive! So a little anxiety can be a good thing. But when our fears cause us to shut down and turn off, it stops working for us and begins to deterioate our loving relationship(s). That is why it is so important to learn simple communication and problem solving techniques – believe it or not this is key for creating a fantastic sex life! Try setting aside 20 minutes every week to air out those little frustrations that have a tendency to build up into big walls to intimacy. Don’t go over the 20 minutes (use a timer!) and take turns speaking and listening. Use “I feel” at the beginning of your shares and validate your partner’s feelings with “I hear you feel . . .” If something serious comes up during the 20 minutes which doesn’t get solved in the allotted time, simply agree to pick up where you left off next week. This disciplined problem solving program actually creates more passion in the relationship because the healthy boundaries create safety for both of you! Give it a try and let me know how it goes!
4 Jaxxx // Oct 1, 2009 at 3:01 am
Thanks for the feedback Veronica. I like the part about setting aside a specific amount of time, but maybe 15 minutes?!
I actually talked with my wife about this suggestion and she is in! I’m confident that if we both stick to that plan along with some other rules we setup (like the i feel statements and not “i feel you” either). I’m in no hurry to try it, but I don’t dread the next time an issue comes up as much now. We’ll both feel respected and cared about. The challenge there would be to not deviate from that plan with old behaviors. Thanks again!
5 Veronica Monet, ACS // Oct 1, 2009 at 4:18 pm
Of course you can do this any way you choose, but be forewarned that the resistance to doing the exercise as stated is the first sign that you probably won’t succeed. It’s not a guarantee but a high probability. The reason the exercise is for 20 minutes (not 10 or 15 or 25) is because that amount of time allows you to engage emotionally and get out of your comfort zone without staying engaged so long that you risk a major conflict. Also, it is an exercise – NOT a parachute for your next problem. If you don’t practice the exercise now when things are going smoothly, you will not be able to pull it off in the heat of an argument. Practicing once a week whether you need it or not builds those synaptic connections in your brain which will help you do what you have practiced when a real problem arises. Try it. What do you have to lose? And keep in mind – if it feels a little scary or awkward or unnatural – you ARE doing it the right way! We can never expect different results unless we do something different and new things always feel “funny.” But the pay off is worth it! I promise.
6 Jaxxx // Oct 6, 2009 at 2:04 am
I can see how my comment may have been misconstrued as being resistant. It was suggested by a councilor my wife and I were seeing for some time to do it in 10 minute increments, so I figured 15 would be the best of both suggestions. I’m taking the vote of confidence and putting it up on the shelf for now. I did suggest the part about practicing it once a week even if there are no issues we may be dealing with. I see the importance of practicing new behavior. There’s a saying that comes to mind….. “If nothing changes, nothing changes”. My wife is my best friend and worth all the scary and awkward feelings that could possibly arise. And, I could always use more synaptic connections!
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