We are always on the search for the hottest sex tips.  Especially those of us in long term relationships.  It can be tricky to feel that there is anything new at all to be tried.  But it’s important to add some new spicy moves into the mix to keep things exciting for both of you.  So, let’s put our heads together and find some juicy new moves to keep it exciting for years to come.  We’ve listed five quick and easy sex tips for mind blowing sex, now you come up with an idea to add to the list.  For every idea, we’ll add your name to our drawing for the monthly free sex toy giveaway!

Quick and Easy Sex Tips for Mind Blowing Sex

• Use those kegels! This goes for both men and women.  During regular intercourse, use those kegel muscles to thrill your partner.  Ladies, grip your men hard or squeeze tight before they enter, making them work to penetrate you.  Men, penetrate deeply, hold still and do nothing other than squeeze those muscles, the movement inside her will be a surprise she’ll love so much that she’ll beg you to do it again.

Learn how to excercise those kegels for women and for men to get the best use out of them.

• Use that lube! Wet sex is hot, make it wetter by getting a clean shower curtain and pouring lube all over it.  Your slippery bodies against each other in all the right places!  Read the Lube for Sex Guide for added inspiration.

• Eat off each other’s bodies. Break out the whipped cream, fruits, chocolate body toppings and make sundaes out of each other.  Oral sex is so much more exciting when your partner is licking you completely clean.  For a super sexy touch, start at the feet, cover each toe with something yummy and slowly work your way up their body.

• Use those clothes! Undressing is so much hotter when you use the lingerie you are wearing to help stimulate your partner.  A pair of nylons can be used as a cockring (Don’t tie too tight), or to tie your lover’s hands, or blindfold your partner.  A belt can be used to teasingly spank your partner.  A silky chemise can be used to caress your partner all over with.  You get the idea.  Use those cloths for more than just covering yourself with.

• Use the BDSM list. Maybe the thought of BDSM doesn’t appeal to you, but this list has hundreds of ideas.  At least a few of them will appeal to both of you.  Each of you fill out the list and compare notes, then do the ones that you both said you’d be willing to try.  Review the list after you’ve done anything and see if either of you have decided to get a little riskier this next time around.

We hope this list has given you some inspiration to create some mind blowing sex for you and your partner!  Add an idea to this list by adding a comment and you could win a free sex toy!  Random drawings will be held monthly starting in March 2010.