Sexy games for the bedroom come in all shapes and sizes. You can start as small or as advanced as you wish. This means you can start at a level that you are both comfortable with, and build up from there. You don’t have to try anything too kinky or “weird” to be able to play sexy games.

Any sexy game can be modified to tone it down or heat it up. Watch for the tips to adjust them to suit your comfort level.

#1: Erotic Dice

One dice has actions – lick, kiss, etc, the other dice has body parts – ear, neck, etc. Roll the dice, match up the action to the body part and you’ve got yourself a sexy game!

You can pick up a pair of ready-made erotic dice – hint: check out the HappyHer online store. Or you can make your own with a pair of regular dice.

When making your own, you can easily adjust the actions/body parts to match your comfort level.

Advanced: Heat things up by using sex positions, fantasies or role play ideas instead of body parts and actions.

#2: Sexy Scrabble

Scrabble is a common game that can easily be adapted to create a sexy game. Here’s how.

Limit yourselves to words that are ONLY sexy or romantic. This could include phrases, slang, etc. You can set whatever parameters work for you. Play the game as usual with those words. You can still use the points and point booster squares on the board as you would with the regular Scrabble.

Each of you can pick a sexy treat or fantasy that you want to do if you win the game. You could also have a list of “extra” sexy words and you get a special sexy treat when you are able to use one of those words.

Advanced: Anything goes for words – erotic, explicit, raunchy, etc. And be sure to choose some sexy treats that are new to both of you and different from what you usually do in the bedroom!

#3: Strip Hide N Go Seek

Take turns hiding and seeking. When you are found, you must remove one article of clothing. The game ends when you’re both naked and can’t keep your hands off each other!

Advanced: Throw some costumes into this game. Both of you dress up in a sexy costume. When you are found and have to remove an item of clothing, do it strip-tease style. Bonus points if you come up with a role play scenario to work into the game, as well!

#4: The Kissing Game

Remember playing The Drinking Game when you were younger? The Kissing Game is very similar. Here’s how you play.

Pick a movie, preferably one you both enjoy, and then pick some triggers. It helps if you are very familiar with the movie and know some of the phrases, names, etc that are used frequently throughout. Your triggers should be words, phrases, names, characters, objects or other things that appear periodically throughout the movie. Every time you hear or see one of your triggers you must kiss your partner.

Advanced: Add in some other sexy actions to go along with the kissing. You could each have your own individual triggers and have to perform a sexy act on your partner for that trigger (ie, suck a nipple or finger, lick their earlobe, go down on them, etc). If you miss a trigger (your partner has to catch it!), you have to remove a piece of clothing.

#5: The Stranger Game

The Stranger Game is a great way to get started with a bit of role playing!

Arrange to meet your partner at a local bar, club or other public gathering place. When you arrive, pretend that you do not know each other and strike up a conversation. Have fun with it and enjoy getting to know a hot stranger! You never know, the night could even end in a sexy one night stand!

Advanced: Ramp up the role play! Show up wearing a costume and assume that character for the evening. Invite your partner back to your hotel room at the end of the night for a hot one night stand!

Any of these games can be modified and adjusted however you wish. Start with the basic game and build on whatever sexy treats and penalties you want to use, as well as various rules and parameters to make it more exciting for both of you.

You can do the same thing with other games you have around the house as well. Use your imagination, re-write the rules and be sure to mix in some sexy treats that you both enjoy, as well as some new ones that you haven’t tried yet!

As you learn to play together, you’ll find that your relationship benefits in ways that you didn’t even expect!

 Jess Webb, Romantic-Couples-Games.com, Helping couples learn to play together every day.

Editorial Note:  Thank you Jess for an awesome article.  We appreciate your generosity of sharing this with us.  Playing together helps make staying together so much more fun!