For those of you who have never heard of Sweetest Day, it’s a holiday that was created to take time to do something nice for others. It’s not a strictly romantic holiday as St. Valentine’s Day is. It’s similar but is also about taking some time to recognize the important people in our lives by doing something “sweet” for them.

Some people claim that Sweetest Day is a concocted “Hallmark” holiday, and some people really look forward to this second opportunity to have an excuse to lay on the lovey-dovey stuff. Not that you should need an excuse.  Sometimes it helps break the ice for some of the shyer set to open up and reveal some of those warm mushy feelings they may keep hidden away most of the time. After all it IS Sweetest Day!

HappyHer.com wants to give you an excuse to get sexy with our Sweetest Day sale. Take 10% of off every order by using coupon code SWEETEST. This coupon is good from today until October 18th. So take a chance on some lovely new lingerie, some hot leather fashions for fall, or try out a brand new type of sex toy you may never have used before.

While you are wondering what to shop for, join DiddleTalk.com at their brand new forum. DiddleTalk is going to be hosting a forum for the 101 Day sex Challengers as well as offering a free and anonymous place for people to talk about all things sex, dating, relationships or marriage.

At DiddleTalk, you can post questions, stories, poetry, rants, whatever is on your mind….We appreciate the space they’ve given us for our Challenge and are happy to help promote this brand new community. We hope to see you there!

The next time you go dancing at a club, try wearing a leather skirt, or if you dare, a leather mini skirt, or flirty vinyl mini skirt!  A high waist skirt made of leather or vinyl will really show off your waist. A leather lace up skirt comes in different lengths–short and shorter–so you can achieve the best look for your body. A mini skirt will provide club members with the ultimate visual titillation that you can offer, and they look great with v-neck leather halter tops or vinyl cami top.

Risque leather lingerie comes in collection sets that are made to complement each other and your body perfectly. There is a wide variety of bra and panty sets, all in supple leather, from which you can choose. Happyher.com offers shopping privacy, because you are shopping from home, and you can therefore really let your imagination run wild with alluring possibilities. Chains, fringe, fishnet and g-strings all add to the racy nature of these wardrobe items.

Vinyl fetish wear is shiny and made of the highest quality vinyl.  From sexy vinyl pants, to vinyl g-strings, dresses, or booty shorts, you are sure to find something that will create a sexy and unique statement all your own.

Leather lingerie and vinyl wear also includes corsets. Leather corsets and vinyl are available with fronts that have a full lace up, or zippers up the front. Nothing can lift and enhance like a corset.  Wear it for pleasure and for fun.  They look great under a jacket or all on their own.

Enticing black leather lingerie, and sexy vinyl wear brought to you by Happyher.com, might be the perfect gift for yourself or for a friend who is getting married soon. How about a black leather teddy for the wedding night? A fishnet leather teddy is a sheer and sexy look. An alternative might be a leather bikini teddy, with straps in all the right places. Leather and lace combine to make a teddy that is both sweet and seductive. A babydoll is flattering for many figure types, and now you can raise the seduction level to a whole new height by selecting one made out of black leather.

Or, how about a sweet new Vinyl fetish wear outfit for the new rave or event in your local fetish community?  Or a pair of vinyl thongs under your next business suit, for a seductive feeling only you will be aware of.  How Sensual!

Leather lingerie and vinyl fetish wear is coming out of the dungeons and into the mainstream.  Pick up some new pieces for yourself or your partner today!

Whether you prefer vinyl or leather pants, teddies, thongs, skirts or corsets, the tantalizing feel of these materials leave you feeling erotically pleased and gorgeous! There are intimate pieces for sexy playtime, or gorgeous outfit pieces for day wear or evening wear.

Allure leather is based in Canada and due to raising gas prices, and the current state of the American dollar, the manufacturer is being forced to raise prices effective September 11, 2008. HappyHer.com will honor our current pricing of Allure Leather products until that date.

We will also add some gorgeous new leather pieces, including corsets from them later in September, so stay tuned for more information!

1. Underwear as outerwear. Creating a professional look and maintaining your own style of sensual pleasure is easy when you add a silky camisole under a suit jacket. Bustiers look great for club wear or evening wear with a skirt or even a sexy pair of jeans. Grab a teddy to wear under that low cut sweater, you’ll look great and feel so sexy! Ultra mini skirts are sexy fun to wear over a pair of leggings and will work for many occasions. Go through your closet and see how you can mix and match different pieces of lingerie with jeans, skirts, business suits, or leggings to create a unique sexy style all on your own.

2. Step out of character. If you normally wear silk and lace, go bold with leather and/or vinyl. You’ll feel risque’ and dangerous. Or, if you typically wear fetish or edgy wear, try out a silky chemise or an elaborately embroidered bustier. You’ll feel so feminine and alluring. Changing your style will help bring out other levels of the luscious woman you truly are.

3. Tantalize your partner when you are getting ready to leave the house by walking around in your favorite lingerie. Even if that isn’t the same lingerie you will end up wearing, it only takes a moment to do a very hot “walk through” to leave your partner’s mouth open and his mind on how sexy you looked for the rest of the evening.

4. Keep it on! You don’t always have to be stark naked in order to have wild and steamy sex. For an erotic eye-candy treat, leave some of your lingerie on. Thigh highs and high heels are some of my favorite, or a bustier and nothing else but your smile will be super hot as well.

5. Bag it! Get two lingerie outfits out. One that’s totally wild and one that’s a bit on the tame side. Put them in two separate gift bags. Let your lover pick a bag, and you wear whatever one is picked!

6. Leave lingerie out on your bed or in the bathroom so your lover will get a peek of what you will be wearing later. They will be thinking of it all day!

7. Tuck a panty or thong in with your partner’s suitcase while they are planning to be away on business. Spritz some of your favorite fragrance on it along with a sexy note of what you want to do when they come home!

8. Don’t forget the bodystockings! Bodystockings go under everything and if you buy the ones with an open bust and open crotch, you don’t have to take them off for your sexiest time of the day. Wear them under a conservative outfit and then surprise your partner when you start to slowly undress.

9. Send something silky and sexy in a thank you card to your partner! Let them know how much they turn you on and how you are looking forward to modeling the item that you sent for them the next time you see them. Expect to hear from them very soon!

10. Leave them at home! Wear a sexy vinyl or leather mini-skirt, silky cami top, and sexy shoes, and nothing else. Let your partner know that you “forgot” to wear your panties. You’ll both stay turned on the whole night.

Can you think of other sexy fun things to do with lingerie? Send us your ideas and thoughts and one of you may win a pair of free HappyHer.com panties just for sharing!

1. Know her size! She will be upset if you go too large and disappointed if you go too small. If you aren’t sure of her exact size, pick lingerie with “One Size” fits all options. These will fit most women up to queen size and she will be happy with something she can wear right away.

2. Know her style! A woman whose idea of foreplay is 20 lashes is not going to want a fluffy foo-foo look, she’s going to want leather, maybe vinyl, and more sophisticated looks with darker colors. Someone on the more conservative side probably wouldn’t appreciate a leather studded crotchless teddy. “How to Match Her Style” will give you specific suggestions in regard to style matching options.

3. Know what is appropriate for the occasion. For example, for your honeymoon, you would want to choose bridal lingerie. “The Right Lingerie at the Right Time” article in “Gift Guides” will give you options to help you with this.

4. Pick a variety of items for her. The more items you pick, the more likely it is that she is going to like at least some of what you bought for her. For example, get something conservative that she could wear for everyday, something sexy to wear on a special occasion, and something on the naughty side, then throw in a couple of pieces of costume jewelry and maybe a naughty toy or two, a couple of candles, or bath and body products and you’ll be all set!

5. Stay close to her regular preferences. Some women refuse to wear thongs and g-strings and some women won’t wear regular panties, so find out which one she wears, and stick to that. If she wears t-shirts to bed, get comfortable babydoll and chemise outfits that are appealing, but still offer the comfort that she is used to. Knowing her preference is as easy as paying attention to what she wears from day to day.

These points should get you started in the right direction! She is going to be so happy when she sees how thoughtful you were with your gift giving efforts.

When talking about using all of our senses for our sexual pleasure, the sense of touch seems more than obvious. Let’s take it a little further though.

Our skin is the largest organ on our body. With millions of nerves running all through your body, every part of you responds to touch. How do the clothes feel on your body, is there a gentle breeze deliciously caressing you? What feelings turn you on the most? Is it vinyl or leather sitting smoothly, yet strongly against your skin, or is it the feel of silk that lightly sways against you at the most luscious of moments?

Do you like the feel of super soft bed sheets while you are caressing yourself, or getting caressed by your partner, or does the feel of restraints firmly holding you in place do it for you the most? I know for me, it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I like soft as a whisper touches, and other times I want pushed over the edge of my preconceived limits.

Spend some time and stroke your body all over, softly, roughly, give a little smack. What does your body respond to? Being tuned into the sensations your body responds to most, then being able to communicate that to your partner, or giving yourself those pleasures, will greatly enhance your overall sensual experiences.

Get a feather, a whip, an ice cube, play with your entire body, from the tips of your toes to the top of your head, really explore as many different textures and touches you can think of. Then come back and tell us what does it the most for you.