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		<title>Sex Toys are Tools for Pleasure</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 11:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let's get honest.  We use tools for everything in life.  We use them to help make our tasks easier and more pleasant to accomplish.  Well, sex toys are tools, and they are toys.  They are tools because they will do things for you that you can't do by yourself.  Kind of like you wouldn't change a tire with your bare hands. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1174" align="left" title="What's in Your ToolBox?" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/toolbox-300x203.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="203" /></a>I&#8217;ve been reading at one of my favorite forums and was amazed at the amount of people that are still hesitant on using <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank"><a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">sex toys</a></a> with their partner.  The reasons for avoiding them range from &#8220;My husband thinks he should be enough&#8221;, to &#8220;We might become addicted to them&#8221;, &#8220;They are shameful/sinful&#8221;, to actually quite a few other reasons.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry, but those reasons are based in ignorance.  It&#8217;s like taste testing food.  How do you really know if you&#8217;ll like it, or how well they&#8217;ll work if you won&#8217;t even try them?</p>
<p><a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">Sex toys</a> aren&#8217;t meant to replace a partner.  You can never replace human touch and intimacy.  Never, ever, ever, ever.  Well, they do help for masturbating, but that&#8217;s a different story.  Using <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toys</a> with your partner is meant to enhance and increase pleasure, offer more satisfying orgasms, and deepen physical and emotional intimacy.  How can that be wrong or bad?</p>
<p>You also can&#8217;t become addicted to <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toys</a>.  You may like them so much that you feel addicted to them, but you&#8217;ll still find yourself having lots of sex without the toys.  In fact, you&#8217;ll probably more sex as there is great pleasure in variety.   <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">Sex toys</a> definitely help give you a broader range of variety to have adventures with.</p>
<p>The best<a title="Sex toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank"> sex toys</a> for couples are created through years of testing.  I would love to be on that testing panel.  I think in a way my husband and I are as we like to check out a lot of different toys since I work with them all day anyway.  I can&#8217;t tell you how much they&#8217;ve added to our sex life.  Even the most simple toys can pack some great pleasure.  Some don&#8217;t work at all for us, and that&#8217;s okay too.  The ones that work for us, well, it&#8217;s worth the &#8220;duds&#8217; for sure.  The duds still offer us something to laugh about and deepen our intimacy as we further learn what works and what doesn&#8217;t for each of us.</p>
<p>My reccomendation is to get some sex toys and try them out.  What have you got to lose?  Perhaps a few dollars, but most toys can be purchased for pennies on the dollar and the experience itself can be priceless.  After you&#8217;ve actually tried them once or twice, then you can make intelligent choices and you might just find your sex life going to new levels of excitement!</p>
<p><strong>The Top Three <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">Sex Toys</a> for Couples:</strong></p>
<p>Here is our pick of &#8220;starter&#8221; toys that each couple should take the time to try at least once.</p>
<ul>
<li>A <a title="Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">Cockring</a>.  A <a title="cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">cockring</a> is created to give a man a stronger erection with some major lasting power.  His orgasm will be significantly more intense.  Overall, this is a win-win situation for both people.  Get a <a title="Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">cockring</a> that is adjustable, or super stretchy to start with and see for yourself how amazing it can be.  If you like it, try a <a title="cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">cockring</a> that has a vibrator attached to it too for some extra delights for both of you.  You can learn how to use a Cockring <a title="How to Use a Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2008/08/how-to-use-a-cockring/" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</li>
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<li><a title="Bullet Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Bullets-49-1.html" target="_blank">A Bullet or Egg Vibrator</a>.  This are small powerhouses of vibration.  They can be used to massage both of you and are exquisite to adding new levels of sensation to oral sex on either one of you.  They can be inserted vaginally (We don&#8217;t recommend anal insertion of these vibes), you can then continue with intercourse with the bullet inserted as well and you&#8217;d be amazed at how much you both may enjoy this.  You can also use it for clitoral stimulation, or perineum stimulation during intercourse as well.</li>
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<li><a title="Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Vibrators_and_Massagers-56-1.html" target="_blank">A Dildo Vibrator</a>.  Start with a small one that won&#8217;t seem intimidating. It&#8217;s great for foreplay on each other, or to use to help finish your partner off with if you don&#8217;t last as long.  Some women can&#8217;t orgasm without a vibrator.  That&#8217;s just how some women are physically wired and is exactly why vibrators were invented in the first place.  Try it and you&#8217;ll see what satisfaction and pleasure can be accomplished.</li>
</ul>
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<li><a title="Lube" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_and_Lotions-83-1.html" target="_blank">Don&#8217;t forget the lube</a>!  Most sex toys work best when you use some <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_Lotions_and_Potions-54-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about lube &raquo;">lube</a> with them.  Even if you use no other sex toy, lube can come in handy time and time again.</li>
</ul>
<p>So, let&#8217;s get honest.  We use tools for everything in life.  We use them to help make our tasks easier and more pleasant to accomplish.  Well, <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toys</a> are tools, and they are toys.  They are tools because they will do things for you that you can&#8217;t do by yourself.  Kind of like you wouldn&#8217;t change a tire with your bare hands.  They are toys because they are FUN.  Doesn&#8217;t your relationship deserve at least a chance to try them?</p>
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		<title>Green Sex Tips for a Sexy Earth</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 18:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To celebrate Earth Day, HappyHer.com will give you a free bottle of Aloe Cadabra™Organic Lube.  Just place any order for over $50.00 and we will automatically send your free lube to you along with your order.  Offer is available until supplies run out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1146" title="Happy Earth Day" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Earth-Day-298x300.jpg" alt="" width="298" height="300" align="left" /></a>Earth day is April 22, 2010 and we are ready to celebrate!  <a title="HappyHer.com" href="http://www.HappyHer.com" target="_blank">HappyHer.com</a> thinks the earth is such a sexy planet, and we want to do our part to help keep it beautiful, sensual and luscious for many generations to come!</p>
<p><strong>Green Sex Tips</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Shower together &#8211; it&#8217;s super sexy and saves water!</li>
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<ul>
<li>Try <a title="Bamboo Bed Sheets" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002OKZFKO?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=httpwwwhappyh-20&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=B002OKZFKO" target="_blank">Bamboo bedsheets</a>!  Bamboo fabric is silky and slippery, but not as slippery as satin.  They wick away moisture, have natural antimicrobial properties, comes from a rapidly renewable resource.  What is sexier than that?</li>
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<li>Taste Sweeter by eating a mostly vegan diet.  Reducing red meat in your diet, and increasing your servings of fruit and vegetables will give you sweeter tasting sex juices!  Your partner will love oral so much more when you taste delicious.</li>
</ul>
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<li>Use natural aphrodisiacs.  Before opting for pills to enhance your libido, go for natural aphrodisiacs such as <a style="border: none;" title="Horny Goat Weed" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0002405DG?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=httpwwwhappyh-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B0002405DG&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=" target="_blank">Horny Goat Weed</a>, Ginseng, and even chocolate to help increase desire.</li>
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<p><strong>Green <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">Sex Toys</a></strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Rechargeable sex toys that are phthalate free is a great way to show a commitment to taking better care of the earth!  <a title="HappyHer.com" href="http://www.HappyHer.com" target="_blank">HappyHer.com</a> has picked out an exciting collection of <a title="Rechargeable Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=Rechargeable&amp;x=39&amp;y=14" target="_blank">rechargeable sex toys</a> for you to choose from.</li>
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<li>Glass Sex Toys is also a great choice.  <a title="Glass Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=glass+dildo&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">Glass sex toys</a> don&#8217;t have the same toxic chemicals that are harmful to our health or the environment.  See the collection of <a title="Glass Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=glass+dildo&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">glass sex toys</a> that you can use alone or with your partner.  You can heat them up or cool them down with water or even in the frig for an amazing experience.</li>
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<p><strong>Get Free Organic <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_Lotions_and_Potions-54-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about lube &raquo;">Lube</a>!</strong></p>
<p>To celebrate Earth Day, HappyHer.com will give you a free bottle of Aloe Cadabra™Organic Lube.  Just place any order for over $50.00 and we will automatically send your free lube to you along with your order.  Offer is available until supplies run out.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-1145" align="left" title="Aloe Cadabra" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/AC3091610.jpg" alt="" width="115" height="230" /></a><em>Aloe Cadabra™ is the smooth and silky organic surprise that is more fun and safer for you than the harmful chemical brands. It&#8217;s pleasurable for you, and delightful when shared with a partner. The juicy aloe sensation is a gynecological health ally and a dream come true. This organic, all natural food grade gel soothes your most sensitive tissues with a lubricity that magically enhances all intimate encounters.  It won&#8217;t harm condoms or other synthetic toys. It&#8217;s not a spermicide and will not prevent STDs, but is safe if ingested.</em></p>
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		<title>How to Get Over the Embarrassment of Using Sex Toys in Front of Your Partner</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 18:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many men and women would like to experiment with sex toys during sex with their partner, but they are overcome by feelings of embarrassment about it.  That's okay to feel embarrassment, but that feeling is not going to allow you to fully explore and express intimacy with your partner.  So, let's look at some ways that might help you get over that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1136" title="Get Over Being Embarassed" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/embarassed-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" align="left" /></a>Many men and women would like to experiment with <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank"><a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">sex toys</a></a> during sex with their partner, but they are overcome by feelings of embarrassment about it.  That&#8217;s okay to feel embarrassment, but that feeling is not going to allow you to fully explore and express intimacy with your partner.  So, let&#8217;s look at some ways that might help you get over that.</p>
<p><strong>Start Small</strong></p>
<p>Pulling out Big Daddy Dong and going for it as if it&#8217;s a glass of ice water in the middle of Death Valley is probably going to be extremely intimidating for you and your partner for your &#8220;first time&#8221; with a sex toy.  Start with something small and on the more conservative side.  A <a title="Bullet Vibe" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Bullets-49-1.html" target="_blank">bullet vibe</a> is usually a great first choice, or a <a title="Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">cockring</a> for the men.  Don&#8217;t worry about going all the way with it the first time you get it out.  Just play around a bit with it, put it aside and pick it up some other time and slowly build with how adventurous you want to become with it.</p>
<p><strong>Use the Surprise Element</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Guess what I brought home to play with Honey?&#8221; is a fun surprise.  Use the <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toy</a> on them first.  A vibe can be used on a man partner without penetration and feels incredible if you combine it with oral or manual stimulation.  Rub it right underneath their testicles or lightly play with it all over them.  When they see how good it feels, they may want to return the favor.</p>
<p><strong>Give it to Them to Use On You</strong></p>
<p>Hand your <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toy</a> to your partner and let them know you are really curious about what it&#8217;s like.  Let them know that you&#8217;ve heard so much about how sex toys can really help couple&#8217;s add some variety and spice to their sex life, that you just want to check it out.  Then let them figure out how to use it on you.  You can let them know what feels good and what doesn&#8217;t, or make suggestions like &#8220;Try this, or try it that way&#8221;.</p>
<p>Remember, you don&#8217;t control what your body likes or doesn&#8217;t like, your body has it&#8217;s own idea.  It&#8217;s honest and open to let your partner know what your body is feeling.  There is no room for embarrassment if you are approaching it in a more scientific way.  For example, your foot hurts if it gets stepped on and it feels good if someone rubs your shoulders.  Are you in charge of that?  Of course not.  You are not in charge of your bodies sexual responses either.  You are only in charge of how open and honest you are going to be about what your body responds to and doesn&#8217;t respond to.  Work at deepening the openess and honesty in your relationship by allowing your partner to know how your body feels during sex toy play, or any other physical activities for that matter.</p>
<p><strong>Be Playful!</strong></p>
<p>Have some fun, using a <a title="Sex Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toy</a> isn&#8217;t brain surgery.  Have a sense of humor and don&#8217;t be afraid to laugh or tease with it.<br />
Bring out your sex toy to your partner and say &#8220;Honey, if this sex toy was you, here is what I&#8217;d want you to do to me.&#8221; Then show them what you like.  &#8220;I would want you to touch me here, like this&#8221;, and &#8220;I would want you to do this to me.&#8221;, while physically showing them.  For one part of that, your partner is going to get way turned on by the visual, for the second part, you are making it about them which will help take the focus off your feelings of embarrassment.</p>
<p>So, to sum it all up, be creative, start small, and keep your sense of humor.  Sex toys are fun, it&#8217;s why they are called toys.  You don&#8217;t have to start using them every time you have sex.  They are meant to enhance sex, not replace what you are all ready doing.  So, relax and have some fun.  You may find that they open the door to whole new levels of intimacy and sexual satisfaction for both you and your partner.</p>
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		<title>Picking Out Your First Vibe Sex Toy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 15:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people have to go through several vibes before they find the one that really does it for them.  Here are the tips to cutting through some of those trial and errors.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1077" align="left" title="Confused first vibe sex toy" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/first-time-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>So, you&#8217;ve thought about it for a long time and are finally ready to pick out your first vibe.  There are so many different styles and options, how do you know what is best?  Some people get stuck with too many decisions and end up not making any decision at all.</p>
<p>Many other people will run to the store or their favorite online adult <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">sex toy</a> store, and grab the first vibe, and usually the cheapest they can find.  Then, they are dissappointed because it didn&#8217;t live up to the fantasy.   If that has happened to you, don&#8217;t give up.  Some people have to go through several vibes before they find the one that really does it for them.  Here are the tips to cutting through some of those trial and errors:</p>
<p><strong>Set a fair budget for your first vibe</strong></p>
<p>The cheapo vibes can be fun to use and throw away, but they don&#8217;t offer the feeling and quality that the higher end vibes offer.  Now, you probably don&#8217;t want to break the bank either.  There are many medium priced vibes that will give you top of the line quality.  So set a fair budget, say between $25 to $40 for your first vibe.</p>
<p><strong>What kind of stimulation are you looking for?</strong></p>
<p><a title="My First Wabbit" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/My_First_Wabbit_Purple-17340-0.html" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1078" align="center" title="My First Wabbit" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/rabbit.jpg" alt="" width="84" height="236" /></a><BR>A <a title="My First Wabbit" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/My_First_Wabbit_Purple-17340-0.html" target="_blank">rabbit</a> vibe will do it all and was made extremely popular by &#8220;Sex in the City&#8221;.  These remain the most popular.  They are made to insert and to stimulate your clit at the same time.  They pulse, vibrate and rotate for some delectable sensations.  It&#8217;s my belief that every woman should have a rabbit in her bedroom!</p>
<p><a title="Ella Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Ella_Vibrator-17792-0.html" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1079" align="center" title="Ella Vibrator" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Ella-Vibrator.jpg" alt="" width="156" height="250" /></a><BR><a title="Ella Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Ella_Vibrator-17792-0.html" target="_blank">G-Spot vibes</a> are shaped to really be able to reach that g-spot for some incredible stimulation.  If you aren&#8217;t quite sure though, you might want to save this type of vibe for when you are feeling a bit more advanced.</p>
<p><a title="Jelly Egg" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Vibrating_Jelly_Egg_Dark_Pink-17923-49.html" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1080" align="center" title="Jelly Egg" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Jelly-Egg.jpg" alt="" width="176" height="218" /></a><BR><a title="Jelly Egg" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Vibrating_Jelly_Egg_Dark_Pink-17923-49.html" target="_blank">Bullet or egg vibes</a> look like eggs.  They can be used to stimulate and insert.  They won&#8217;t feel like a regular vibe, but if you insert a bullet, and then insert a real penis, you&#8217;ll both realize some mind blowing sex that you may have never thought possible.</p>
<p><a title="Jelly Fantasy Twister" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Jelly_Fantasy_Twister_Lavender-17772-56.html" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1081" align="center" title="Jelly Fantasy Twister" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Jelly-Fantasy-Twister.jpg" alt="" width="89" height="224" /></a><BR><a title="Jelly Fantasy Twister" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Jelly_Fantasy_Twister_Lavender-17772-56.html" target="_blank">Traditional vibe</a>.  A traditional vibe is a phallic looking vibe that is used for insertion, but can also be used for other stimulation.  It&#8217;s a great choice if you aren&#8217;t quite sure how or what stimulation you want, but just know you want to try it out.</p>
<p><strong>Are you going to be using it solo or with your partner?</strong></p>
<p>You can use the same style vibe for masturbating and with your partner.  But you might want to keep the color selection in mind.  Whipping out the &#8220;Big Daddy&#8221; vibe with your partner, might be a little intimidating.  Starting with a small bullet or even vibrating <a title="Jelly Wittle Wabbit Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Jelly_Wittle_Wabbit_Pink-17902-50.html" target="_blank">cockring</a> to help introduce your partner to the idea and incredible sensations of a vibe might be your best start.</p>
<p><strong>Should you buy online or in a store?</strong></p>
<p>Many people prefer to buy sex toys online.  It&#8217;s more discreet, usually better pricing, and you can shop from the comfort of your own home.  Other people like to go to a store and look around.  Either way is fine.  If you are going to buy online, make sure you are buying from a reputable online store &#8211; like <a title="www.HappyHer.com" href="http://www.HappyHer.com" target="_blank">HappyHer.com</a> for example!</p>
<p>Overall the best thing to do is just dive in, start looking around and pick one that you think might be fun to try.  Keep a sense of humor about it and if the first one doesn&#8217;t work out, try another one.  Don&#8217;t forget the batteries and <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_Lotions_and_Potions-54-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about lube &raquo;">lube</a>!</p>
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		<title>Are You Try-Sexual?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is the HappyHer.com Challenge for all of you. Instead of looking around for new ideas that you want to try, stretch out into new territories and find some things that you feel may be a little risky for you to try. The riskier the better. You don't have to act on them right away, just find them and start to create a list.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1031" align="left" title="Try It" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Try-Sexual1-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>Keeping your sexual life exciting and fresh can be one of the biggest challenges in a long term relationship. Many of us tend to fall in a rut of doing the sames things over and over. Then we sit around and wonder why our relationship starts to feel stale or boring. Don&#8217;t allow your relationship to stagnate. Become try-sexual to trying new things. It&#8217;s the absolutely best way to keep things &#8220;New&#8221; between the two of you.</p>
<p>Here is the <a title="www.HappyHer.com" href="http://www.happyher.com" target="_blank">HappyHer.com</a> Challenge for all of you. Instead of looking around for new ideas that you want to try, stretch out into new territories and find some things that you feel may be a little risky for you to try. The riskier the better. You don&#8217;t have to act on them right away, just find them and start to create a list.</p>
<p>This list is going to be a catalyst to getting your mind primed and juiced back up for passion with your beloved. Mental stimulation is by far one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs, and thinking about all this sexy stuff, whether you act on it or not is going to create some heady results.</p>
<p>So, start your list by listing EVERYTHING sexual you can think of. Whether you would do it or not, just put it down there. Then, next to each item, mark with &#8220;MIGHT Try&#8221;, &#8220;Never&#8221;, or &#8220;Will talk about it&#8221;. If you find something that sends a sense of curiosity or excitement in you, but you also have fear or shame, mark &#8220;MIGHT Try&#8221; and go on to the next item. Don&#8217;t allow your brain to take over, this is about allowing your erogenous zones do the talking for once.</p>
<p>For some clarification on the &#8220;Will talk about it&#8221; items; Those are things that you know you will never do, but perhaps your partner has mentioned it before, or perhaps it sounds like a turn on, but you just know it&#8217;s not in the best interest of your relationship. Let&#8217;s use the example of threesomes.</p>
<p><strong>Try-Sexual Talk about Threesomes</strong></p>
<p>You or your partner have noticed that thinking about having a threesome is exciting for you. But you know that introducing another partner into your relationship wouldn&#8217;t be helpful. What usually happens at this point, is you both decide &#8220;Never&#8221; to do it, but there are still those exciting thoughts and feelings there and they aren&#8217;t being shared together. That reduces the possibility of some really luscious intimate connections, so we are going to fix that right now.</p>
<p>Surprise your partner by saying something like &#8220;If we ever did have a threesome, I would do ______ (Think of a really gorgeous actor/actress, or famous person, not someone personally known to you both)&#8221;. Then walk away and allow your partner to create thoughts and images of what that threesome would be like.</p>
<p>Can you imagine how your partner might be turned on at this point? Good. That will make for some really lusty sex later, even if _____ isn&#8217;t joining you. This is really a lot more powerful than a simple paragraph can contain, so just try that for yourself and notice the response. My guess is that you&#8217;ll really like it, and you&#8217;ll feel closer to each other for openly accepting a turn on, even if you never do act on it.</p>
<p>You could always role play it too.  Get a <a title="Blow Up Doll" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Blowup_Babes-47-1.html" target="_blank">blow up doll</a>!  You can do so many things with you, your partner, a <a title="Blow Up Doll" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Blowup_Babes-47-1.html" target="_blank">blow up doll</a> and some imagination!  Imagine the look on your partners face when they walk in the bedroom and see you and the babe waiting.  Priceless, huh?</p>
<p>Use your list of &#8220;Will talk about it&#8221; items as mental foreplay and have fun with it.</p>
<p><strong>MIGHT Try This</strong></p>
<p>Now we are going to look at your &#8220;MIGHT Try&#8221; items. These are things that you are curious about, or your body felt a reaction to,but you aren&#8217;t sure if you want to actually do it or not. Of course, the first place to start is talking to your partner about it. No shame, or fear here, just mention. &#8220;I don&#8217;t know if this is for me or not, but what if we tried _______&#8221; For this example we are going to go to our <a title="BDSM List" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2009/04/bdsm-checklist/" target="_blank">BDSM list</a> and choose something simple, like whipping.</p>
<p>Whipping might not be your style. You might not be turned on to giving or receiving pain, so you rule that out. But don&#8217;t rule whipping out completely. Push yourself to see what else you might like about it. What could you do with a whip that would turn your lover on and create some fiery passion in your bedroom? Stroking and light taps on your lover, or from your lover, could &#8220;whip&#8221; you both into a fury of lust! Pun intended! Your partner seems to be in agreement to that. So you would add &#8220;<a title="Whip" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=whip&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">get a whip</a>&#8221; onto your list of try-sexual things to do.  Add a bit of dirty talk to this and you&#8217;ll just might have the best time ever.</p>
<p>As you go through your list you might find quite a few items that you might try given the right circumstances. So go through the list of &#8220;MIGHT Try&#8221; items and see what part of them you might try. Then, if your partner is willing, put them on the &#8220;Things to do&#8221; list.</p>
<p>Make sure and push your envelope a bit, but don&#8217;t agree to anything that you absolutely don&#8217;t feel comfortable with. The same goes for your partner. Limits are important, so even though you both need to get a little risky, you don&#8217;t have to put yourself in an undesirable position. In fact, make sure you avoid that and stick to things that you really know you are open to at least experimenting once with.</p>
<p><strong>Here are some Try-sexual ideas to start with:</strong></p>
<p>Role Play. This is by far one of the lustiest things you can do. It taps into that creativity that you probably haven&#8217;t fully utilized since you were a child. All of us played pretend games as children. Play pretend games now and see where it leads. You don&#8217;t have to get <a title="Costumes" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Costumes-8-1.html" target="_blank">fancy costumes</a>, although they can be fun! You really don&#8217;t need much at all, other than your imagination. Role play ideas could range from picking up a stranger at the grocery store, to naughty nurse, or even an adult version of cowboys and indians or cops and robbers.</p>
<p>Try a new <a title="Sex Toy" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Sex_Toys-44-1.html" target="_blank">sex toy</a>. Never worked with sex toys? They are fun, easy, and non-addictive. They can create sensations that you or your partner have never felt before. If you like it, then you can use it occasionally or move on to more toys. If you don&#8217;t like it, well, at least you know you were brave enough to try. Either way, it will give you and your partner something private to share together and that&#8217;s always a wonderful thing.</p>
<p>Try <a title="handcuffs" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=handcuff&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">handcuffs</a> and <a title="blindfold" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=blindfold&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">blindfolds</a>. Ask your partner to handcuff and blindfold you and give you a sensual massage or foreplay activity of your choice. Then switch places. This will allow you both to experiment and try out feeling helpless to each others touch. That vulnerability/control of each other can be a delicious stimulant for some really hot sex.</p>
<p>The <a title="BDSM List" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2009/04/bdsm-checklist/" target="_blank">BDSM list</a> contains an almost unlimited amount of ideas. Don&#8217;t let the name of the list fool you, it&#8217;s not all about BDSM as you might think it is. Check it out for your own list and have your partner do the same.</p>
<p>Finally we get to the &#8220;I would never do that&#8221;, before you cross it off entirely ask yourself why not? Think it&#8217;s too nasty? If it&#8217;s not harmful and you think it might feel good, who cares? Isn&#8217;t part of opening up to your partner on all levels about pushing your own boundaries and knowing yourself fully and deeply too? If you are limiting yourself because of feelings of shame or guilt, then that&#8217;s not going to help reach the depths of intimacy that might really do justice to the potential that your love affair could truly reach. Obviously, if you know it&#8217;s something that is totally unappealing to you, cross it off, but keep an open mind to determine if you&#8217;ll at least talk about it, or &#8220;MIGHT Try&#8221; it under the right circumstances.</p>
<p>By the time you are finished with this list, you are going to have some great new ideas for you and your partner. Chances are you&#8217;ll both be turned on just creating a list in the first place. Remember to stay open minded and keep a sense of humor.</p>
<p>Also, one last very important tip, be accepting to everything your partner brings up. You don&#8217;t have to agree to do it, but you must not criticize them or put them down for having feelings about something that are not the same as yours. Maybe they&#8217;ll bring up something you would &#8220;NEVER&#8221; do, but at least talk with them about it first and let them know that you appreciate their openness and honesty even if you decide it&#8217;s just not for you.</p>
<p>Are you try-sexual?  Give it a shot and see what happens.  I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll be disappointed.</p>
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		<title>Using a Vibrator to Enhance Sexual Satisfaction</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are so many myths surrounding the use of vibrators, let's debunk some of those myths first.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="size-medium wp-image-899" align="left" title="Sexual Adventures Can Come True!" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/couple-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>Using a <a title="Vibrators" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Vibrators_and_Massagers-56-1.html" target="_blank">vibrator</a> to enhance sexual satisfaction is one of the best things you can do to really spice up your sex life.  There are so many myths surrounding the use of vibrators, let&#8217;s debunk some of those myths first.</p>
<p><strong>Vibrator Myth Number One:</strong></p>
<p>Myth:  A man should be able to make a woman orgasm with just his hands, tongue, or penis.</p>
<p>Truth:  Some women can&#8217;t have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. &#8220;If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she&#8217;s not broken,&#8221; acclaimed sex educator, Tristan Taormino states.  &#8220;Think of a vibrator as your assistant, not your substitute. Many couples use vibrators together. &#8220;While you&#8217;re doing one thing, or two things, the vibrator can be doing something else,&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Vibrator Myth Number Two:</strong></p>
<p>Myth:  You can get addicted to your vibrator.</p>
<p>Truth:  Okay, some of us can &#8220;feel&#8221; like we are addicted to our vibrators, but we don&#8217;t actually get addicted to them.  If you can achieve orgasm without them, you will still be able to achieve orgasm without them no matter how often you use them.<br />
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Vibrator Myth Number Three:</strong></p>
<p>Myth:  A vibrator replaces the need for &#8220;real&#8221; sex.</p>
<p>Truth:  Absolutely not true.  Having sex with a partner fulfills many needs that a vibrator will never hold a <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Candles-4-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about candle &raquo;">candle</a> to.  Emotional intimacy, physical affection from a warm body will never be replaced with a <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">sex toy</a>.</p>
<p>Now that we&#8217;ve cleared up some of the myths, let&#8217;s look at some ways to enhance sexual satisfaction by using a vibrator.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Use a vibrator for foreplay.</strong> A woman needs a longer amount of time to warm up for sexual intercourse, using a vibrator will help warm her up faster and more thoroughly.</li>
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<li><strong>Use a vibrator during oral sex.</strong> Having a vibrator for oral sex can really add some heat for a man or a woman!  Use the vibrator to stimulate her vagina, her clitoris, or anal opening while you orally attend to her.  For a man, use the vibrator up and down his penis, on his testicles, perineum and anal opening and he&#8217;ll be begging for more.</li>
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<li><strong>Use a vibrator during intercourse.</strong> Most women can&#8217;t orgasm with intercourse alone.  Using a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris can really make it happen though.  Also, using the vibrator to stimulate him during intercourse, around his perineum or anal area will send him over the edge of pleasure!</li>
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<p><a title="Types of Vibrators" href="http://www.happyher.com/pages/vibrator_types.html" target="_blank"><strong>Types of Vibrators</strong></a></p>
<p>There are so many different styles and vibrators to choose from.  What works best for one person, might not do it for the other, and vice-versa.  Here is a quick run down of some of the most popular styles.  Experiment with the different styles to find the ones that will become your favorites:</p>
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<li>Bullet Vibrators are small multi-purpose vibes that are a favorite to many.  You can read all about them here:  <a title="How to Use a Bullet Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2009/04/how-to-use-a-sex-toy/" target="_blank">How to Use a Vibrating Bullet Sex Toy</a>.</li>
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<li>Penis or dildo shaped vibrators are created for optimum vaginal stimulation, the <a title="G-Spot Vibes" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=g-spot&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">g-spot vibes</a> add an extra benefit of stimulating the G-Spot.</li>
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<li>Rabbit Vibes were made popular by sex and the City.  They are phallic shaped vibrators that have an extension on them built to stimulate the clitoris simultaneously.  You can learn more about these at <a title="The Love of a Rabbit" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2008/05/the-love-of-a-rabbit/" target="_blank">The Love of a Rabbit</a>.</li>
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<li>MP3 Vibrators &#8211; YES!  Music lovers love these vibrators.  They vibrate on their own or along with your favorite musick on your iPod.  Learn more about these here:  <a title="MP3 Vibrators" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/2009/01/we-will-rock-you/" target="_blank">We Will, We Will, Rock You!</a></li>
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<p>There are also vibrating anal toys, cockrings, sponges, and more for just about every sensuous adventure you can imagine embarking on.  For pictures and more details on even more types of vibrators, check out this <a title="Types of Vibrators" href="http://www.happyher.com/pages/vibrator_types.html" target="_blank">glossary</a>.</p>
<p>Learn how to care for your vibrators by reading <a title="Take Good Care of Your Vibrators" href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/page/2/?s=care+of+vibrators" target="_blank">Take Good Care of Your Vibrators</a>!  Stock up on some <a title="lube" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_and_Lotions-83-1.html" target="_blank"><a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_Lotions_and_Potions-54-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about lube &raquo;">lube</a></a> and batteries and have fun!</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 16:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am here to tell you that the G-Spot does exist. This article will tell you the truth about the G-Spot and exactly what it is.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-891" title="Searching for the G Spot" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Searching-for-the-G-Spot-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>That latest news lately has been about how there is no scientific evidence of the &#8220;G-SPot&#8221;.  Rest assured ladies and gentlemen,<a title="HappyHer.com" href="http://www.HappyHer.com" target="_blank"> I</a> am here to tell you that the G-Spot does exist.  I will tell you the truth about the G-Spot and exactly what it is in just a bit.</p>
<p>The G-Spot is believed to be the holy grail of women&#8217;s orgasms.  For some women that&#8217;s true, but not for all women.  The clitoris is still the number one body part with the most nerve endings and the most successful part of a woman to stimulate to orgasm.</p>
<p>The G-Spot orgasm is believed to allow women to squirt liquid when they orgasm this way.  This is true too, but only in a very few women.  Many women and men feel like a failure if they can&#8217;t replicate this fantastic sounding orgasm.  In reality, if you have tried and not succeeded, it just may not be possible for you.  If it&#8217;s fun and feels good to try, keep trying though.  Just don&#8217;t feel bad if it doesn&#8217;t happen to you.</p>
<p>The G-Spot is actually the urethral sponge.  Every body has this, therefore, every women does indeed have a G-Spot.  It&#8217;s located in the upper wall of the vagina, about an inch or so inside.  You can tell you&#8217;ve &#8220;hit&#8221; this spot when you feel a ridgy, spongy like texture.  The most sensitive part of that is going to feel like it indents slightly inwards until you are back to the smooth velvety feel of the rest of the vaginal tissue.</p>
<p>THAT is what the G-Spot is.  It&#8217;s an erogenous zone that may or may not put into throws of ecstasy.  The same as some women can orgasm with just having their nipples stimulated (Rare, but true!), some women can have extremely powerful orgasms when the G-Spot is stimulated.  Some women find this area way too sensitive for the stimulation, and some women won&#8217;t feel much of anything at all.</p>
<p>So, that&#8217;s the truth of the G-Spot.  The G-Spot does exist and it&#8217;s a crap shoot of whether it&#8217;s the holy grail of orgasm for any particular woman.  I would suggest finding out on your own using a <a title="G-Spot Vibrator" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=g-spot&amp;x=53&amp;y=12" target="_blank">g-spot vibrator</a>, or having your partner use their fingers to stimulate the above mentioned area called the &#8220;G-Spot&#8221;.  This sounds much more romantic to ask for G-Spot stimulation than it does to ask to have your urethral sponge stimulated.  But, it&#8217;s one in the same.</p>
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		<title>Oral Sex Tips that will Leave Him Begging for More</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a man to sit back, relax and be pleasured with his lover's lips, tongue, hands, and breath can leave an impression that will last a lifetime. Use these oral sex tips that will leave him begging for more and watch how pleasurable this can be for both of you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.HappyHer.com"><img class="size-full wp-image-784" align="left" title="Create an Oral Fixation" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/Sucker.jpg" alt="Create an Oral Fixation" width="271" height="407" /></a>There is nothing more sensual or intimate than oral sex. For a man to sit back, relax and be pleasured with his lover&#8217;s lips, tongue, hands, and breath can leave an impression that will last a lifetime. Use these oral sex tips that will leave him begging for more and watch how pleasurable this can be for both of you.</p>
<p>The biggest tip to giving great oral sex is to relax and enjoy yourself. The biggest turn on for a man is to see his lover starving for him and loving every lick, kiss and suck that you give him.</p>
<p><strong>Oral Sex Tips:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Drizzle some<a title="Flavored Lube" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Edibles-84-1.html" target="_blank"> flavored lube</a> on him that will leave your mouth watering.</li>
<li>Use your hands to stroke and caress him.</li>
<li>Make sure to pay attention to his testicles and underneath his testicles.</li>
<li>Practice humming and moaning low and high and watch how the vibrations turn him on.</li>
<li>Use pressure on the penis, but keep it very light on his testicles. The penis is not a delicate flower and a little added pressure will make it more pleasurable. It&#8217;s the testicles that are extremely sensitive.</li>
<li>Use toys like <a title="cockrings" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">cockrings</a>, <a title="vibrating bullets" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Bullets-49-1.html" target="_blank">vibrators</a>, or some <a title="Anal Toys" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Anal_Toys-46-1.html" target="_blank">anal stimulation</a> to create the most exquisite experience for him.</li>
</ul>
<p>Here is a video we found on YouTube that offers a great way to practice giving oral sex to your man:<br />
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<p><strong>Oral Sex Positions:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Kneel on the floor between his legs as he is sitting comfortably.</li>
<li>Have him lay down and you kneel over him or lay beside him.</li>
<li>Lay on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed or even dining room table and see how easy it is to slide him all the way down your throat!</li>
<li>Lay side by side.</li>
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<p>We hope you have some inspiration to give your man some incredible oral sex tonight!</p>
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		<title>How to Use a Cockring</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 21:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Juice</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[HappyHer.com gets quite a few phone calls asking about this small, but wonderful toy called a cockring.  This article should help give you all the information you need to begin exploring the possibilities for yourself! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="www.HappyHer.com" href="http://www.HappyHer.com" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-165" title="ring of power cockring" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/ring-of-power-176x300.jpg" alt="" width="176" height="300" align="left" /></a></p>
<p><a title="Cockrings" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Cockrings_and_Stimulators-50-1.html" target="_blank">Cockrings</a> are most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, and to delay and heighten orgasm. They work by constricting blood flow and keep blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to come and because the penis is filled with additional blood.</p>
<p>A cockring should feel comfortable to wear and shouldn&#8217;t cut off circulation completely, just enough to enhance your experience.  Adjustable cockrings are the best to start with as you can tighten or loosen them at will.  The Soft Rubber Erection Ring is a great cockring for first time users.</p>
<p>There are metal, rubber, <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Leather-21-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about Leather &raquo;">leather</a>, and plastic styles.  If you choose a cock ring that is not adjustable, you want to make sure you get the right size.  One that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely, which is not the goal.</p>
<p>Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, they could cause some very uncomfortable effects.</p>
<p>Cockrings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect.  Or, you can fit them just around the base of the penis, whichever is more comfortable and works for you.</p>
<p>To fit a cockring over your testicles and penis, Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft goes in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard in case it becomes uncomfortable. Using <a title="Lube" href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Lubes_and_Lotions-83-1.html" target="_blank">lube</a> is a good idea to help putting rings on and taking them off.</p>
<p>For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It&#8217;s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it&#8217;s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are most likely going to occur.</p>
<p>Some cockrings have additional stimulating accessories, such as the <a title="Love Tapper Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Love_Tapper_Cockring_Pink-17898-0.html" target="_blank">Love Tapper Cockring</a>, or cockrings that have vibrators or detachable bullets are incredible for both partners, like the <a title="Honey Bunny Cockring" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/R4A_Honey_Bunny_Cockring-17978-0.html" target="_blank">Honey Bunny Cockring<strong></strong></a>.  You can adjust the cock ring to where the <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Vibrators_and_Massagers-56-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about vibrator &raquo;">vibrator</a> offers the most pleasurable sensations for both of you.</p>
<p>If you are a man, get a cockring and practice with it by yourself when you masturbate to get used to how it feels and how to adjust it for a smoother experience with your partner.  If you are a woman, surprise your guy by slowly slipping the cockring on and starting with some oral sex to give him a thrill he won&#8217;t soon forget!</p>
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		<title>The Love of a Rabbit</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 12:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cherrie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rabbit vibrators are a newer more inventive line of vibrating toys.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/thisone1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-107 alignleft" style="float: left;" title="thisone1" src="http://www.happyher.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/thisone1.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="216" /></a>Rabbit <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Vibrators_and_Massagers-56-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about vibrator &raquo;">vibrators</a> are a newer more inventive line of vibrating toys. They are made as single dildos, dual duty vibrators with clitoral stimulators, and also triple duty that takes care of anal play.  The Rabbit vibrators come in a variety of sizes and colors, and some are filled with pearl type beads for easier movement, added pleasure, and the ability to tickle every inch of your insides.</p>
<p>Some Rabbits have remotes so you can lay back and enjoy the ride or sit up and control your fate with the buttons on the unit itself. The clitoral stimulator is a Rabbit, hence the name. <a title="Rabbits" href="http://www.happyher.com/index.php?p=catalog&amp;mode=search&amp;search_in=all&amp;search_str=rabbit&amp;x=0&amp;y=0" target="_blank">The Rabbit</a> is perfect for sexual pleasure. The Rabbit ears fit perfectly along the sides of the clitoris.  Increasing and decreasing the vibrations make the bunny ears tickle and shake you bringing on extreme excitement. The Rabbit head has brought so much pleasure that now they make just the bunny head stimulators without the shaft.</p>
<p>I love my <a title="Rabbit Pearl Plus" href="http://www.happyher.com/products/Rabbit_Pearl_Plus-17890-0.html" target="_blank">Rabbit Pearl Plus</a>, it has a remote. We have been friends for 5 years and it always gives me outstanding erotic enjoyment. I’m sure there are newer better versions but this one is fun for me.  I like to start out by using the bunny ears on my clitoris until my juices are flowing. I lay back and slightly insert the shaft in my vagina and depending on my sexual appetite I adjust the rotation to my pleasure. I let the beads do their work, feel the stretch of its penetration and let my mind wander. I then begin to fully insert the Rabbit and raise the spinning speed by the remote. Adjusting the speeds and varying my body movements the Rabbit’s shaft rubs all my insides arousing my entire body and I am quickly able to reach an orgasm.</p>
<p>I also love when my partner uses the Rabbit on me. He gets to control my orgasm and tempt me with changing the speeds working up to a consistent faster rotation and stop them when I become totally aroused. The play could go on for hours, it’s so enticing, but we typically break the sexual frustration before too long. It is a very fun game.</p>
<p>My Rabbit is my favorite <a href="http://www.happyher.com/catalog/Novelties-44-1.html" class="kblinker" title="More about sex toy &raquo;">sex toy</a>. I use it on weekly basis if not more. The motor has never run hot or shut off. After each use I wash it with anti-bacterial hand soap and warm water, shake off the excess water and let it air dry. I keep it stored in plastic storage box with a lid. I love my Rabbit and thoroughly enjoy its every pleasure. If something were to ever happen to my Rabbit. I would go out and buy another one. It has been my best sexual investment yet.</p>
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