Talk about pressure.  Don’t we have enough pressure just knowing our sweeties are going to be expecting something from us?  Besides, any holiday that has a baby with wings, shooting people with arrows, should be light hearted, fun, and sexy!  Save the “Super Bowl” idea for weddings or anniversaries, or better yet, the Super Bowl itself.  Why take that away from the football fans?

Let’s keep Valentine’s Day what it is.  An opportunity to show some love.  Here is a quick guide for some great gift ideas no matter what stage of your relationship you are in:

Brand New Relationship:

So you’ve been dating long enough to be celebrating this day, but not long enough to be too presumptuous.  You want to keep it light.  Here are some great picks for you:

Dazzling Stretch Hearts Bracelet. Always remember that women are like crows, we love bright shiny objects!  This bracelet is adorable and will melt her heart if you put it around the neck of a darling plush stuffed animal.

Team the gifts with flowers and chocolate for the finishing touch and watch while her heart melts!  Keep the roses white or pink, or just a single red rose is best.  Too many red roses at this stage is too serious.

Newly Intimate Relationship:

So you’ve been together for a bit and have just started to get intimate.  You still want to keep it light here, but can ramp up the seduction.  Here are some great picks:

A cute Babydoll would be the perfect lingerie gift.  It’s still on the innocent side, yet definitely sexy and a good hint at what’s to come later!  One of our favorites is a lace and sheer babydoll.

Edible Candles. Set the mood for romance with these edible candles.  As they melt, they turn into massage lotion that is SO tasty.  The perfect way to explore each other’s bodies!

If you are practicing safe sex, stock up on the condoms.  Several varieties are Buy One get One Free.

Get red roses and chocolates to complete the gesture.  Hand feed each other the chocolate!

Fully Involved Relationship:

At this point you can’t keep your hands off each other, or maybe your all ready settled in and should be keeping your hands all over each other the way you “used” to.  The sky is the limit here!  Take your pick of the sexiest lingerie, in fact get her a couple outfits and let her model them for you at her leisure.

It might be a good time to gift her with some toys!  Try one of the sexy games to open new doors for exploration and get her a good vibrator.  Don’t forget the lube.  No matter how long you’ve been together, keeping things spicy is easy when you use your imagination.  Have fun and pick something you aren’t sure about and something you know she’ll love.  This is a great time to try new things.

Red roses and deep dark chocolates will finish this gesture off perfectly!

Kinky Relationship:

Go for something hot in leather or vinyl.  Get some new restraints and perhaps a delicious new collar and let the games begin!  If you want to get kinky, but not quite sure how kinky she’ll go, get a furry cuff kit and tease her into submission.  Or put the cuffs on yourself and let her find you helpless and waiting for her sweet torture.

Roses and chocolates are still the perfect finishing touch here as well.  Deep reds and purples will keep with the passionate theme.

Most Important!  Remember that Cupid is a horny little Cherub, not a Super Bowl Coach yelling on the sidelines. So relax and have fun and don’t forget to treat yourself to something sexy while you’re at it!

The next time you go dancing at a club, try wearing a leather skirt, or if you dare, a leather mini skirt, or flirty vinyl mini skirt!  A high waist skirt made of leather or vinyl will really show off your waist. A leather lace up skirt comes in different lengths–short and shorter–so you can achieve the best look for your body. A mini skirt will provide club members with the ultimate visual titillation that you can offer, and they look great with v-neck leather halter tops or vinyl cami top.

Risque leather lingerie comes in collection sets that are made to complement each other and your body perfectly. There is a wide variety of bra and panty sets, all in supple leather, from which you can choose. Happyher.com offers shopping privacy, because you are shopping from home, and you can therefore really let your imagination run wild with alluring possibilities. Chains, fringe, fishnet and g-strings all add to the racy nature of these wardrobe items.

Vinyl fetish wear is shiny and made of the highest quality vinyl.  From sexy vinyl pants, to vinyl g-strings, dresses, or booty shorts, you are sure to find something that will create a sexy and unique statement all your own.

Leather lingerie and vinyl wear also includes corsets. Leather corsets and vinyl are available with fronts that have a full lace up, or zippers up the front. Nothing can lift and enhance like a corset.  Wear it for pleasure and for fun.  They look great under a jacket or all on their own.

Enticing black leather lingerie, and sexy vinyl wear brought to you by Happyher.com, might be the perfect gift for yourself or for a friend who is getting married soon. How about a black leather teddy for the wedding night? A fishnet leather teddy is a sheer and sexy look. An alternative might be a leather bikini teddy, with straps in all the right places. Leather and lace combine to make a teddy that is both sweet and seductive. A babydoll is flattering for many figure types, and now you can raise the seduction level to a whole new height by selecting one made out of black leather.

Or, how about a sweet new Vinyl fetish wear outfit for the new rave or event in your local fetish community?  Or a pair of vinyl thongs under your next business suit, for a seductive feeling only you will be aware of.  How Sensual!

Leather lingerie and vinyl fetish wear is coming out of the dungeons and into the mainstream.  Pick up some new pieces for yourself or your partner today!

1. Underwear as outerwear. Creating a professional look and maintaining your own style of sensual pleasure is easy when you add a silky camisole under a suit jacket. Bustiers look great for club wear or evening wear with a skirt or even a sexy pair of jeans. Grab a teddy to wear under that low cut sweater, you’ll look great and feel so sexy! Ultra mini skirts are sexy fun to wear over a pair of leggings and will work for many occasions. Go through your closet and see how you can mix and match different pieces of lingerie with jeans, skirts, business suits, or leggings to create a unique sexy style all on your own.

2. Step out of character. If you normally wear silk and lace, go bold with leather and/or vinyl. You’ll feel risque’ and dangerous. Or, if you typically wear fetish or edgy wear, try out a silky chemise or an elaborately embroidered bustier. You’ll feel so feminine and alluring. Changing your style will help bring out other levels of the luscious woman you truly are.

3. Tantalize your partner when you are getting ready to leave the house by walking around in your favorite lingerie. Even if that isn’t the same lingerie you will end up wearing, it only takes a moment to do a very hot “walk through” to leave your partner’s mouth open and his mind on how sexy you looked for the rest of the evening.

4. Keep it on! You don’t always have to be stark naked in order to have wild and steamy sex. For an erotic eye-candy treat, leave some of your lingerie on. Thigh highs and high heels are some of my favorite, or a bustier and nothing else but your smile will be super hot as well.

5. Bag it! Get two lingerie outfits out. One that’s totally wild and one that’s a bit on the tame side. Put them in two separate gift bags. Let your lover pick a bag, and you wear whatever one is picked!

6. Leave lingerie out on your bed or in the bathroom so your lover will get a peek of what you will be wearing later. They will be thinking of it all day!

7. Tuck a panty or thong in with your partner’s suitcase while they are planning to be away on business. Spritz some of your favorite fragrance on it along with a sexy note of what you want to do when they come home!

8. Don’t forget the bodystockings! Bodystockings go under everything and if you buy the ones with an open bust and open crotch, you don’t have to take them off for your sexiest time of the day. Wear them under a conservative outfit and then surprise your partner when you start to slowly undress.

9. Send something silky and sexy in a thank you card to your partner! Let them know how much they turn you on and how you are looking forward to modeling the item that you sent for them the next time you see them. Expect to hear from them very soon!

10. Leave them at home! Wear a sexy vinyl or leather mini-skirt, silky cami top, and sexy shoes, and nothing else. Let your partner know that you “forgot” to wear your panties. You’ll both stay turned on the whole night.

Can you think of other sexy fun things to do with lingerie? Send us your ideas and thoughts and one of you may win a pair of free HappyHer.com panties just for sharing!

When talking about using all of our senses for our sexual pleasure, the sense of touch seems more than obvious. Let’s take it a little further though.

Our skin is the largest organ on our body. With millions of nerves running all through your body, every part of you responds to touch. How do the clothes feel on your body, is there a gentle breeze deliciously caressing you? What feelings turn you on the most? Is it vinyl or leather sitting smoothly, yet strongly against your skin, or is it the feel of silk that lightly sways against you at the most luscious of moments?

Do you like the feel of super soft bed sheets while you are caressing yourself, or getting caressed by your partner, or does the feel of restraints firmly holding you in place do it for you the most? I know for me, it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I like soft as a whisper touches, and other times I want pushed over the edge of my preconceived limits.

Spend some time and stroke your body all over, softly, roughly, give a little smack. What does your body respond to? Being tuned into the sensations your body responds to most, then being able to communicate that to your partner, or giving yourself those pleasures, will greatly enhance your overall sensual experiences.

Get a feather, a whip, an ice cube, play with your entire body, from the tips of your toes to the top of your head, really explore as many different textures and touches you can think of. Then come back and tell us what does it the most for you.