The first thing you have to do is know your bride-to-be’s personality, likes and dislikes. A wild child isn’t going to enjoy a spa day party and a conservative cookie would be mortified if the male strippers showed up or she is coerced into wearing a “Suck for a Buck” shirt. So, the first thing is to determine where her heart lays.

Start slow. Get everyone together at one person’s house. This is where you can give gifts, have appetizers or dinner and even do mini-makeovers to get ready for the rest of your night. If the party is to stay home for the duration, then make sure there is plenty to do. Party games, movies to watch, food to eat and beverages will be needed. If you are headed out, plan to go to places you normally don’t go and arrange your designated drivers if drinking is going to be involved.

Think outside the box. The most memorable parties are going to involve some sort of activity that you believe the bride-to-be might really enjoy, but hasn’t done yet. The wildest events I’ve heard of involved body piercings and tattoos, but that’s only because the maid of honor was certain it was something the bride wanted. It could be as simple as a new party game, or as involved as going on a mini vacation or cruise. If you have a house party and male strippers are out of the question, bring in a psychic, or some other live entertainment for something extraordinary.

Give creative gifts. Save the bridal lingerie for the bridal shower. Instead, get more risque. Give sexy gag gifts, vibrators or items for the sexiest honeymoon ever! Have some gifts on hands for the guests too. Fun gag gifts include pecker whistles or pecker pens. These gifts can really help break the ice if you are having a party where a lot of the people don’t really know each other that well.

Make sure you plan this event in plenty of time. Make reservations, send invitations, and have the decorations, gifts, and any other details completed by two to three weeks before the event just to make sure you have everything you need.

The most important rule though is to have a blast! Chances are if you are the one in charge of planning the event, you know first hand what the bride-to-be will be thrilled and surprised with. This is her last big hoopla event as a single woman. By adding those personal touches you are going to send her into wedded bliss with style and creativity.

Do something different this year. Being extravagantly romantic doesn’t have to be extravagantly expensive. It’s the romance that counts. You have two weeks to pull something unforgettable together so start now. Here are some ideas to juice up your imagination!

Make a home made card. You don’t have to be a world class artist, just do it. Get goofy, or mushy and create something that will surprise and delight your partner that you actually made an extra effort. If you don’t know what to say, look up romantic poems on the internet and copy one. Better yet, just get inspiration and write your own. Combine that with a single red rose and some decadent dark chocolate and you will earn so many more points than if you just picked up some Hallmark card at the drugstore.

If making a card doesn’t seem feasible to you, then write a list of the 101 things you love about your partner. Read it out loud while they are soaking in a nice hot bath that you’ve prepared for them. Dry them off, massage them with some luscious massage oil, and you’ll both be on your way to places where dreams are made! Don’t forget the roses and chocolate though!

Send flowers, even if it’s just a single red rose to her at work. Women LOVE to have others see how much you think about them and it will brighten their mood. Then, arrange to meet her after work for dinner, then take her home for dessert. The dessert is both of you with some decadent chocolate body topping of course! An even sweeter touch to this is to gift her with some lingerie in the morning that she can wear to work under her work clothes. It will keep her feeling sexy, and you’ll get all hot and bothered every time you think of how she looks under those work clothes!

Get a small decorative box and fill it with short sweet love sayings that you write out one by one and fold into squares, or roll up and tie with ribbon. Gift her with that when you give her the flowers and chocolate and let her know that if she misses you or needs some extra love, to just pull one of the notes out for the day.

Suggest starting the 101 Day Sex Challenge™ that starts on February 14th. You’ll have 101 days to celebrate your love for each other in ways that will leave you both smiling!

Do you see how making that little bit of extra effort will help your partner feel loved and special to you? Everyone needs to feel that way and who else can give that to your partner besides you?  Leave the blue light on for some other poor schmuck unless a blue light love affair is all you are hoping for. Get passionate, get creative, and have fun! The pay offs will be worth it.

Here are five unique ways to have the sexiest Valentine’s Day ever:

• Treat your partner to a sexy movie night.  After a deliciously sexy movie or two, reenact the steamiest scene in your favorite movie.  If you can wait that long!  An even more unique twist on this is to treat your lover to an adult movie subscription at HappyHer Movies. It’s just like netflix, but for adults, with “no late fee rentals” and a huge selection of the top rated adult movies available for rental, purchase, or video on demand.

• Have a Game Night! Sexy games will bring brand new spicy ideas to both of you.  The most favorite games are:

Everyone wins with these games!

• Write your lover a passionate love letter. Let them know the top ten things that turn you on about them.  Make sure to include a few fantasies in there and then gift them with some sexy gift sets to help recreate the fantasy.  Make it a costume for roll play fantasy, a new bondage kit, some sexy lingerie, you get the idea.

• Shower them with love! Literally.  Turn your shower into a steaming hot passion palace with just the right equipment and toys for the wettest sex ever!  Here are some favorites for shower or bath time pleasures:

• Flowers and Chocolate are still Hot! But make them unique with this rose bud feather tickler.  It’s a gorgeous red rose that will bring pleasure long after the real roses fade away.  And, for the chocolate, your partner gets to be the creamy center when you use some decadent chocolate body topping!  Or for an even more unique twist, opt for the chocolate edible candle!  You get great ambience, great aromatherapy, a sensuous warm massage oil that is delicious to lick off of your partner.

• Sign up for the 101 Day Sex Challenge™.  The next one starts February 14th.  It’s free to join, anonymous, and no obligations.  We’ll be anouncing the sponsors and partners for this event soon and it’s going to be a great time.  In the meantime, you can register HERE.

The most unique Valentine’s Day ideas will be to combine a few of these ideas together!  Your partner is going to know for sure how much they mean to you when you spend a little bit of time to plan something unique just for them.  And, with these ideas,  you’ll be in for a good time too!

There are Tons of Movies to Pay Per View, Rent, or Buy at HappyHer Movies. There is something to excite everyone with some of the biggest Stars in Porn!

Make sure you take advantage of your free trial and check a variety of your favorite movies out today.

Here is a Key to the Categories to help you decide which ones you want to check out first:

• * Newly Added * – Movies added to the site within the last month.

• 2 on 1 – Contains scenes with 2 people of the same sex performing with one person of the opposite sex.

• All Girl – Contains scenes with girl on girl sex only.

• Amateur – The actors are first timers or non professionals.

• Anal – Includes scenes with anal intercourse.

• Animation – Animated sex scenes.

• Asian – Features Asian actors.

• Ass-To-Mouth (ATM) – Includes scenes where the actors cock goes directly from the girls ass to her mouth.
  

• Barely Legal – Features younger girls.

• BBW: Big Beautiful Women — they’re more than just “chubby”.
  

• Bi-Sexual – Includes sex scenes with two guys and a girl all having sex with each other.

• Big Butts – Features girls with large bottoms.

• Big Tits – Features girls with larger than D cupped sized boobs.

• Black – Features Afro-American actors.

• Bondage – Contains scenes where people are tied up or bound in some way.

• Chubby – Features women who are pleasingly plump.

• Classic – Remastered movies from the 70s-80s.

• Compilation – A collection of separate sex scenes shot from different movies.

• Couples – Movies recommended for couples.

• Cream Pies – Includes scenes where a guy cums inside of a girl.

• Cumshots – Movies focused on cumshots.

• Domination – Includes scenes where someone is instructed by someone else.

• DP – Includes scenes where a girl is penetrated in the ass and pussy simultaneously.

• Eclectic – Has a theme that is out of the ordinary.

• European – A movie that was shot in Europe.

• Facesitting/Smothering – Features women sitting on mens’ faces and/or smothering them.

• Feature – A movie with a plot.

• Fire Crotch – Featuring performers with red hair.

• Foot – Focuses on feet.

• Gangbang – A woman or man having sex with multiple partners in turn or at the same time.

• Gay – Men having sex with each other.

• Girl/Girl – Includes scenes with two girls having sex with each other.

• Gonzo – A movie without a plot where the actors acknowledge the presence of the camera.
  

• Grannies – Featuring women over the age of 55.

• Group Sex – Multiple people having sex at once.

• Hairy – Includes actors that have more than the normal amount of hair on their body.
  

• Handjobs – Focused on handjobs.

• Hidden Camera – Features women “unaware” that they’re being filmed.

• High Definition – Films shot in high definition.

• Instructional – Provides sexual advice.

• Interactive – A movie where that allows you to interact by choosing sex scenes.

• Interracial – Includes sex between people of different races.

• Lactation – Featuring women with lactating breasts.

• Latin – Focused on Hispanic and Latin women.

• Masturbation – Contains scenes of girls masturbating or playing with toys.

• Medical – Includes scenes with use of medical implements.

• Midgets – Has scenes with small people in them.

• MILFs – Includes scenes with women over the age of 30.

• Muscles – Featuring muscular women.

• Non-Adult – Movies and concerts that are not erotica.

• Oral – Focused on blowjobs or the mouth.

• P.O.V. – Movies shot to put you in the action.

• Pantyhose/Stockings – Focusing on women wearing leggings of some kind.

• Pregnant – Features pregnant women.

• Public Nudity – Featuring displays of exhibitionism or sex in public.

• Shaving – Contains scenes of women shaving some part of their bodies.

• Small Tits – Featuring girls with little boobs.

• Smoking – Featuring scenes of actresses smoking.

• Softcore – Movies with no penetration or hardcore sex scenes.

• Spanking – Includes people getting spanked.

• Squirting – Includes girls who squirt when they orgasm and peeing movies.

• Strap-on (F on M) – Movies with women using toys on men.

• Summer – Movies with a summer and beach theme to keep warm by.

• Transsexual – Women with cocks.

• Unconventional – Rare footage of daring sexual escapades.

• Vignette – A movie made of several scenes each with their own story.

• Voluptuous – Women with thick curves.

• Voyeurism – Contains themes of people observing those having sex.

The article stated how many women are afraid or uncomfortable to truly explore or initiate sex because they fear their bodies aren’t “good enough”.  New York City ob-gyn Hilda Hutcherson, M.D. states “But women who are able to get past those insecurities can find those fears are unfounded and realize how empowering it can be to experience pleasure and connection with another human being.  Similarly, masturbation puts you in touch with your body.  You appreciate the skin you are in.  It truly is amazing to realize the extreme pleasure that we’re capable of.  Your body really is your best friend!

To help you to get started exploring your body and increasing self esteem in your body image, we are offering the Lover’s Colossal Collection at the special price of $84.69.  Other stores are selling this incredible set for over $100.00, so this is quite a savings.  You’ll have everything you could think of and more to discover new pleasures and delights.

This Set Includes::
·    A Blind fold to further heighten the surprise and sensations that you and your partner can surprise each other with.,
·    A feather tickler to tease and stroke yourself or each other with.
·    A Metallic Vibe with an attached bullet for incredible stimulation all over.
·    A Lover’s Dice Game to help you get tips on what to do next!
·    Club 5 Stay Hard Spray to extend the pleasure.
·    A toy cleaner to help keep your toys in tip top condition.
·    Moist flavored Lube for an oral good time!
·    A nubbed penis extension for ultimate sensations.
·    A quick release cockring to help him get hard as a rock and stay that way.
·    A knobbed cockring that offers delight for both of you.
·    Three of penis love rings.
·    Two types of anal beads, perfect for beginners or more experienced anal sexploration.
·    Eight tantalizing samplers of different lubes and lotions.
·    A pocket rocket masturbator with four changeable heads.
·    A trimmer to keep that down there hair under control.
·    A belly button strobe light for an exciting strip tease or sexy lap dance.
·    A pocket pussy masturbator that will make him cum like never before.
·    A rabbit tickler that will give your clit a wonderful good time.
·    A penis pump for helping lengthen the penis, not to mention how good it feels!
·    A bulging attachment for the dildo to give you an extra full feeling.
·    A nubby attachment for the dildo that will create stimulating textures of enjoyment.

If you are going solo, or just aren’t quite sure this is the right set for you, start small with a bullet vibe or even just your own two hands and an erotic movie to get things rolling.  You’ll learn more about your body, feel better due to the benefits of having a healthy orgasm, and all those good feelings will help equate to feeling like the Goddess you truly are.

The vibrating bullet is a small, discreet sex toy, but don’t let the size fool you! They have a powerful motor that gives big vibration and help provide some earth shaking orgasms. These bullets are popular because there is so much you can do with them.

The vibrating bullet is the perfect clit stimulator.Most of them are adjustable, so they can be turned down very low for an extra sensitive clit, or they can be turned up full blast for vibe veterans. It’s best to put it right above, or massage it around the clit as putting it directly on the clit might be irritating or too intense. Start out on the lightest speed and adjust according to desire.  Don’t forget the tease factor or turning it up and down.  Also, a dab of lube will help work wonders.

The vibrating bullet can also be used for vaginal penetration. Try inserting a bullet and then a penis for some ultimate pleasure for both partners. Make sure that you thrust gently and slowly so you both remain comfortable with the added insertion.

It’s best not to use bullets for anal penetration as the cord could come loose and create an unsafe predicament. Some people really enjoy the feeling of using the bullet to massage around the anal area without the penetration along with oral sex or other foreplay techniques.

It is also a favorite with men. Using a bullet to stimulate his penis and testicles while you give him oral sex will drive him crazy. Massage the shaft of his penis with the bullet on low to medium when you are gently sucking the head of his penis and hear him moan with pleasure.  Or, rub a bullet under his testicles while having intercourse and watch him go over the edge with delight.

Try a variety of different bullets. Some come detachable to cockrings for ultimate pleasure. The cockring will give you a really hard penis to play with and a longer lasting erection while the vibrating bullet will stimulate both of you. There are also double bullets; you can use those for penetrating and stimulating at the same time, or stimulating her clit and his perineum at the same time.

Above all, use your imagination and creativity to discover all the enjoyment you will get out of this small, yet mighty sex toy. Here are a few of our featured Bullets we would suggest to try out:

• Remote Control Bullet – Enjoy powerful vibrations without having to worry about messy cords and wires! Just point the remote, flip the switch and indulge yourself in wonderful wireless bliss.
• Millenium Dual Bullet – You have two independently controlled arousers to choose from, the pleasure possibilities are infinite.
• Vibro Pod Digital Music Stimulator – Use Vibro-Pod with your favorite MP3 player to experience powerful rhythmic sensations that groove to the beat of the music.
• Climax Rabbits Bunny Bullet Wand – This Bunny bullet tip has quivering ears for intense external stimulation. The E-Z bend magic wand with unique light-up features has a powerful motor with perfect vibration. This one is currently on sale too!
• MiVibe Necklace Vibrator – A powerful and satisfying three-speed bullet vibrator dangles like a fashionable charm on a necklace – a true day into evening fashion statement! As quoted by AVN July 2008, “The MiVibe takes the top-selling, waterproof BMS Power Bullet on the go – by turning it into a wardrobe piece.”

Talk about pressure.  Don’t we have enough pressure just knowing our sweeties are going to be expecting something from us?  Besides, any holiday that has a baby with wings, shooting people with arrows, should be light hearted, fun, and sexy!  Save the “Super Bowl” idea for weddings or anniversaries, or better yet, the Super Bowl itself.  Why take that away from the football fans?

Let’s keep Valentine’s Day what it is.  An opportunity to show some love.  Here is a quick guide for some great gift ideas no matter what stage of your relationship you are in:

Brand New Relationship:

So you’ve been dating long enough to be celebrating this day, but not long enough to be too presumptuous.  You want to keep it light.  Here are some great picks for you:

Dazzling Stretch Hearts Bracelet. Always remember that women are like crows, we love bright shiny objects!  This bracelet is adorable and will melt her heart if you put it around the neck of a darling plush stuffed animal.

Team the gifts with flowers and chocolate for the finishing touch and watch while her heart melts!  Keep the roses white or pink, or just a single red rose is best.  Too many red roses at this stage is too serious.

Newly Intimate Relationship:

So you’ve been together for a bit and have just started to get intimate.  You still want to keep it light here, but can ramp up the seduction.  Here are some great picks:

A cute Babydoll would be the perfect lingerie gift.  It’s still on the innocent side, yet definitely sexy and a good hint at what’s to come later!  One of our favorites is a lace and sheer babydoll.

Edible Candles. Set the mood for romance with these edible candles.  As they melt, they turn into massage lotion that is SO tasty.  The perfect way to explore each other’s bodies!

If you are practicing safe sex, stock up on the condoms.  Several varieties are Buy One get One Free.

Get red roses and chocolates to complete the gesture.  Hand feed each other the chocolate!

Fully Involved Relationship:

At this point you can’t keep your hands off each other, or maybe your all ready settled in and should be keeping your hands all over each other the way you “used” to.  The sky is the limit here!  Take your pick of the sexiest lingerie, in fact get her a couple outfits and let her model them for you at her leisure.

It might be a good time to gift her with some toys!  Try one of the sexy games to open new doors for exploration and get her a good vibrator.  Don’t forget the lube.  No matter how long you’ve been together, keeping things spicy is easy when you use your imagination.  Have fun and pick something you aren’t sure about and something you know she’ll love.  This is a great time to try new things.

Red roses and deep dark chocolates will finish this gesture off perfectly!

Kinky Relationship:

Go for something hot in leather or vinyl.  Get some new restraints and perhaps a delicious new collar and let the games begin!  If you want to get kinky, but not quite sure how kinky she’ll go, get a furry cuff kit and tease her into submission.  Or put the cuffs on yourself and let her find you helpless and waiting for her sweet torture.

Roses and chocolates are still the perfect finishing touch here as well.  Deep reds and purples will keep with the passionate theme.

Most Important!  Remember that Cupid is a horny little Cherub, not a Super Bowl Coach yelling on the sidelines. So relax and have fun and don’t forget to treat yourself to something sexy while you’re at it!

The Charmeuse robe and boxers are very soft and silky. They come in rich colors that set any man’s skin aglow. Any of the boxers, bun huggers, or thongs are perfect stocking stuffers.

A word of caution here! Virile Cologne for Men is POTENT. It contains an aphrodisiac pheromone that drives woman crazy! It does what AXE does for the boys, only it’s for a MAN. When our men wear it, we quite simply don’t get much work done here at the HappyHer.com headquarters, so only buy this for your guy if you plan on enjoying lusty fantasies during your holiday season!

We hope this Gift Guide for Men gives you some ravishing ideas for your man’s holiday surprises! Don’t forget the mistletoe, candles, mood music, and maybe some new sex toys to spoil you guy with, and you’ll be ready to start intimate new holiday traditions never before dreamed of!

We all need a good holiday this year, more than ever before! We want you to be that HappyHer or Happy Him in your group that brings in the Holiday Spirit to uplift those around you with some sexy good fun! Wear a Santa hat to work and organize the office party. Send an invitation to that special person in your life for a very intimate party for two. Take some time and savor the warmth of good friends and good spirits this time of year.

Gift giving is always a part of the holidays and we are making it easier for you this year by keeping prices lower than most and offering free shipping on any order over $99.95. That way you can treat yourself and your partner!

HappyHer.com makes it easy to find the perfect gift. If you don’t know her size, choose something that is “One Size”, or a gift certificate so she can choose exactly what she wants the most.

More Articles for Holiday Gift Ideas

Here are some more articles that can also help you find the perfect intimate gift!

Guys Buying Guide

Five Steps to Buying the Perfect Lingerie Gift

Gift Guide:  The Right Lingerie at the Right Time

Gift Guide:  How to Match Her Style

Intimate holiday gift ideas can help you create new intimate traditions with your partner! Make sure and order your holiday lingerie early; as they go fast and once they are out of stock, they will not be available again until next year!

The Guy’s Buying Guide to buying lingerie for your lady is going to tell you how to pick items for a small-breasted women, large breasted woman, a woman with a big butt and big hips.  You’ll learn a few secrets along the way that ladies will typically not share with you on their own about why they buy the lingerie that they choose from themselves.

We loaded the guide with pictures of corsets, bustiers, gowns, and more to give you a prime example of the type of lingerie your women will adore and flatter her figure in a way that she’ll beg you to keep the lights on!

Check out the Guys Gift Guide by clicking here:  Guys Buying Guide. You’ll want to refer to this often as you shop for your partner for this coming holiday season.  Start shopping now to make sure the items you crave to see on your luscious lady are in stock and in plenty of time for the season!

You might also enjoy Buying the Perfect Lingerie Gift, Buying the Right Lingerie at the Right Time Gift Guide, and How to Match Her Style Gift Guide.  All of these articles will help you become a pro at buying lingerie for your lady.  Her friends will be so jealous when they find out that she has the kind of man that cares enough to buy lingerie she’ll really love for years to come.

Also, make sure and pick up some new novelties, some jewelry and maybe some sexy gloves or candles from our accessories collection.  You’ll make this the sexiest holiday ever with HappyHer.com here to help.  She’ll be Happy and you’ll enjoy all the benefits of her sexy new gifts too!